Author joystickd Posted January 16, 2013 Author Posted January 16, 2013 I don't vent but say when I call someone or send a text I do wind up checking my phone for an hr or two regularly. Then I'm over it, realize it's game time & guess when she will respond. Tonight for instance I guessed a particular woman would respond to a 5pm text at 10. 9:50. LOL! Oh and she accepted my invite at the same time. I'll get back to her in the morning. ROTFLMAO! I guess it bothers me because im not into bs and expect the same in return. Its frustrating
Kylar Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 I'm tired of actively looking for dates. I find that when I try to force things it just doesn't seem to click right. I understand the frustration but the alternative is to buy a bunch of dogs and become the male version of a cat lady.
phineas Posted January 16, 2013 Posted January 16, 2013 I guess it bothers me because im not into bs and expect the same in return. Its frustrating I got flaked on. LOL! still going out. Not letting it bother me.
Author joystickd Posted January 16, 2013 Author Posted January 16, 2013 I got flaked on. LOL! still going out. Not letting it bother me. It's not necessarily the flaking. It's more about them conveying that they are interested to the point other people notice it then suddenly out of nowhere changing up. That is the BS I really hate. I mean if you cancel on me its cool.
phineas Posted January 17, 2013 Posted January 17, 2013 It's not necessarily the flaking. It's more about them conveying that they are interested to the point other people notice it then suddenly out of nowhere changing up. That is the BS I really hate. I mean if you cancel on me its cool. This woman does that also. say's she wants to be single. that we are friends. Then tries to hold my hand when ice skating & comments about how good I look in certain things ect. However, I've known this woman for a while & she has some baggage when it comes to men. She doesn't trust them. Got hurt by a fiancee' ect. She digs me. She is just afraid of getting hurt, and honestly doesn't think i like her because the last time she fell off the face of the earth on me then came back like a yr later & tried to play it off as no big deal. I called her out on it big time then ignored her for a yr. LOL! so now we are talking again. It's a sht-test to see if i'm really interested in her (I am) but I gotta play it cool or she will rabbit. I'm willing to just get to know her. But i'm not going to ignore other women for her. Funny thing, when you hide your profile on POF people you previously messaged can still message you. I got one who took a few weeks to respond & she wants to meet.
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