Author irc333 Posted January 14, 2013 Author Posted January 14, 2013 I wasted my time scrolling through four pages and not a single picture was posted. I'm out of here. You missed 2 posts above.lol
fortyninethousand322 Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 Women get sexual messages on OLD sites all the time, regardless of their attire in photos. I figure the bikini women have done everyone a favor: if you're the kind of guy who doesn't like women who wear bikinis to the beach or pool you can skip to the next profile. Also, at least you know who's in shape.
MrCastle Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 I'd rather talk about all the men that look at pornography Of course you would, because that's all you do. 2 out of every 3 posts involve pornography and how it has warped the mind of the modern man. 1
TheBigQuestion Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 Of course you would, because that's all you do. 2 out of every 3 posts involve pornography and how it has warped the mind of the modern man. Don't feed her by responding to her posts about porn. For the love of all that is good and holy. 1
gaius Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 All women are like that to some degree. Advertising how desirable they are, that men send them comments like that. Most of them are a little more sophisticated about it though.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 Of course you would, because that's all you do. 2 out of every 3 posts involve pornography and how it has warped the mind of the modern man. I am just making sure we all understand this point . This board can be a little thick sometimes. However, you cut off the rest of my sentence... my real point was not about porn in this case but men that both whine about women who show off their bodies while similtanously enjoying women who show off their bodies. It would have served you better to focus on that because that is a more interesting discussion then what *you* decided to focus on in my comments. If you were sincere about talking about my point, instead of making sure to get in a joke about how often I talk about pornography, this conversation could actually be around something more to your own liking. So don't blame *me* for the limited part of my comment *you* decided to zone in on. You could have addressed the entire phrase where I was clear about making a point about the different set of rules men make up for women. They place "good girls" (see: "girls they want to date") in one box and place other women in another box (women they don't want to date but are happy to exploit for their own sexual pleasure) to attempt control of female sexual behavior. But when when this man is supposely finally dating his "good girl", he will ogle the exact woman he condemns then tell his "good girl" to "relax" all because he is a *guy* and he is so *visual*. It is hypocritical, not to mention manipulative and controlling. This is a much more interesting topic to talk about right now so how about you actually addressing my complete sentence instead of looking for ways to simply make the topic limited, which is actually what *you* have done in this case. Not me. But nice try in *blaming* me for what *you* decided to focus on and how you cut and pasted my entire comment to suit your personal agenda. 1
Disenchantedly Yours Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 Don't feed her by responding to her posts about porn. For the love of all that is good and holy. If any of you actually read my comments, you would see that my post wasn't really a comment about porn. That was actually a very small segment of the actual conversation. I actually made a really good point about how men box women into two different groups based on how men want to control female sexuality when men dually shame women for dressing to display their bodies while justifying oggling women who dress to show their bodies. You have the power to focus the conversation on what part you want to focus it on. It is not my fault that you and Mr.Castle where unable to address my comments in their completeness and instead made it your mission to be mocking in attempt to make fun of me instead of actually using your rational mind and taking stock of the entire comment I made. Which had much more to do with men that dually enjoy women that show off their bodies and simultaneously shun them when it doesn't suit them. So lets discuss that instead. And please take responsibility for the role you play in all this instead of blaming me for what you decided to make the discussion. It is not my fault that you two took this oppurtunity to not dig into the conversation.
MrCastle Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 I am just making sure we all understand this point . This board can be a little thick sometimes. However, you cut off the rest of my sentence... my real point was not about porn in this case but men that both whine about women who show off their bodies while similtanously enjoying women who show off their bodies. It would have served you better to focus on that because that is a more interesting discussion then what *you* decided to focus on in my comments. If you were sincere about talking about my point, instead of making sure to get in a joke about how often I talk about pornography, this conversation could actually be around something more to your own liking. So don't blame *me* for the limited part of my comment *you* decided to zone in on. You could have addressed the entire phrase where I was clear about making a point about the different set of rules men make up for women. They place "good girls" (see: "girls they want to date") in one box and place other women in another box (women they don't want to date but are happy to exploit for their own sexual pleasure) to attempt control of female sexual behavior. But when when this man is supposely finally dating his "good girl", he will ogle the exact woman he condemns then tell his "good girl" to "relax" all because he is a *guy* and he is so *visual*. It is hypocritical, not to mention manipulative and controlling. This is a much more interesting topic to talk about right now so how about you actually addressing my complete sentence instead of looking for ways to simply make the topic limited, which is actually what *you* have done in this case. Not me. But nice try in *blaming* me for what *you* decided to focus on and how you cut and pasted my entire comment to suit your personal agenda. Thanks. It wouldn't be possible without your extreme hatred of men. Love ya DY!
Disenchantedly Yours Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 (edited) Thanks. It wouldn't be possible without your extreme hatred of men. Love ya DY! That's not fair Mr.Castle. I haven't expressed anything close to "extreme" hatred of men. Sure I got my issues, we all do. There are certainly things I struggle with concerning men and things that I am bitter and hurt about. But I actually don't think anyone on this board truly hates members of the opposites sex. There was one poster that I believed really hated women but he hasn't posted for a long time. Again, you could have gotten into a really good discussion about me about the very real fact that a lot of men do infact compartmentalize women into "good girls" (women a man will date) and "bad girls" (women a man will use for sex), while maintaining his status as being able to interact with both kind of women freely. Alot of men do this. They complain and try to control women by setting up rules about what "good girls" do and they both enjoy and put down women that don't follow the rules of "good girls". Well I am sorry but that isn't hate. That's pointing out something men commonly and unfairly treat women for. You don't have to put me down or imply things that aren't even true about me. And I think most people on this board would agree that while I got my issues and struggles with men, that there is nothing close to "extreme hatred" of them. You could have talked about the points of my post that did fit into the topic. You instead took it as an opportunity to put me down by cutting and pasting the one little line about porn and taking it out of context for the conversation. Please take responsibility for that. Edited January 14, 2013 by Disenchantedly Yours 1
MrCastle Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 That's not fair Mr.Castle. I haven't expressed anything close to "extreme" hatred of men. Sure I got my issues, we all do. There are certainly things I struggle with concerning men and things that I am bitter and hurt about. But I actually don't think anyone on this board truly hates members of the opposites sex. There was one poster that I believed really hated women but he hasn't posted for a long time. Again, you could have gotten into a really good discussion about me about the very real fact that a lot of men do infact compartmentalize women into "good girls" (women a man will date) and "bad girls" (women a man will use for sex), while maintaining his status as being able to interact with both kind of women freely. Alot of men do this. They complain and try to control women by setting up rules about what "good girls" do and they both enjoy and put down women that don't follow the rules of "good girls". Well I am sorry but that isn't hate. That's pointing out something men commonly and unfairly treat women for. You don't have to put me down or imply things that aren't even true about me. And I think most people on this board would agree that while I got my issues and struggles with men, that there is nothing close to "extreme hatred" of them. You could have talked about the points of my post that did fit into the topic. You instead took it as an opportunity to put me down by cutting and pasting the one little line about porn and taking it out of context for the conversation. Please take responsibility for that. I do agree we could have had an interesting conversation, but it's hard to do that when it seems every post I read of yours either bashes men, takes something a man says completely out of context and paints him a misogynist, or cites porn as the root of all evil. Since there is a legit discussion to be had in this thread, I don't want to play a part in getting it locked. Apologize to OP for derailing. I'm leaving now. 2
Disenchantedly Yours Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 I do agree we could have had an interesting conversation, but it's hard to do that when it seems every post I read of yours either bashes men, takes something a man says completely out of context and paints him a misogynist, or cites porn as the root of all evil. Since there is a legit discussion to be had in this thread, I don't want to play a part in getting it locked. Apologize to OP for derailing. I'm leaving now. You don't understand anything about what I've been saying. All you want to do is paint me as this horrible person.
MrCastle Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 You don't understand anything about what I've been saying. All you want to do is paint me as this horrible person. I don't think you are a horrible person DY. I like you.
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