irc333 Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 There's this one woman, that has a tendency to attend events all the time on her own....some guys have even made a pass at her, only to find out she's go ta live in boyfriend. I've heard talking about the Meetup site on here, and well, most people in our Meetups are unattached or if they are attached, they bring their spouses or sig. others along for the ride. Some of us singles guys get together and wonder, "Dang, she doesn't bring her boyfriend with her, that's strange". The activity in particular is something he even enjoys. Unless he maybe works or something the day she went...who knows. What was even stranger was the fact she brought a married couple (who are close friends to her) as a +1 to the event. I once asked out a woman from Meetup that I just assumed was single, and she's NEVER brought her boyfriend to ANY of her events. Some others in the group found this rather odd as well. Now, I know the typical response is..."Well, they aren't joined at the hip", but for one...she's in her mid-20's, and that is highly unusually for a YOUNG couple I would say. One woman who brought a female friend (older than her) to a outdoor event had to fend off guys left and right by using her female married friend to "C-block" guys approaching her....Only the 2 of them alienated themselves from the group, away from the crowd, and just kept each other company. Never saw them again after that, and I was wondering if the slew of men flirting with her scared her off. LOL I know one woman that specifically stated that she never attends Meetups without her boyfriend...and for good reason...it simply feels like borderline cheating in her eyes...or makes it looks like she's exploring her options. Question to the ladies, when you came stag to an event full of unattached men...and you left your boyfriend home...did you ever have to deal with men constantly trying to get to know you in a manner where they were showing interest or flirting with you, and you found yourself having to mention your boyfriend in a sentence all the time to fend them off?
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