Gigglygirl Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 Just wondering if you think NC can be successful in making your ex changed their mind, in the case of someone like me. Basically our break came entirely out of the blue, it was a result of panic following a pregnancy scare and everyone, including me, was shocked. It was like a rash decision, everyone said “he’ll come to his senses etc” but me being the stubborn and fiercely proud person I am, acted as if I didn’t care, as if it was a long time coming, there has been no confrontation no arguments, I recently told him I didn’t want to see him as we had originally planned – for closure etc. I said I was moving on nicely, realised the faults in our relationship and that this was all for the best. Wished him a happy life and that’s it. I’ve followed no contact from day 1. When he ended things – over text I may add – I didn’t respond, I called a few hrs later and he reiterated his text so I replied calmly and ended the call. Will he be confused or hurt by my emotionless response? Will it have made him rethink anything? I know our relationship was wrong and I’m already lookin forward to the day when I am in a truly happy relationship, I don’t want him back. However he hurt me so irrevocably that I just want him to regret things. Thanks.
MyAngel Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 I'm sorry you have been hurt. It sounds very messy! I am a bit confused though, if you don't want him back but you still want him to change his mind and want you back, what does that mean? Are you more hoping for him to regret what he did so you can feel at least validated? Its impossible to say what nc will do. Nc is important in your situation, not to get him to regret the break up, but for you to cut ties to him. If you don't want him, leave it be. No point hanging around you know? Your response to him is mature, not necessarily emotionless. Would you have rather throwing yourself to the ground and begging? No, you have reacted in the best way possible
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