tnewell Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 (edited) Hi, I got a boyfriend that is almost 13years younger then me he 24andim37 we been together for almost a year we only been living together like three months and im starting to feel like our relationship is a koke well I been felt that way because he keep phone numbers and pictures of all his exes. Some of the pictures are naked pictures of his exes .he always texting his exes and calling them when im not around I dont know if he do it cause he think everytime I leave he think its a possibility that I mihht be with another man or is he just a whore I never seen texts telling them he wanna **** t just about he love them and he wanna move with them when he think im cheating and I just would have went out with a friend or famoly member he got trust issues before I even got with him so because he does this plus stare at women and make googoo eyes at them then I dont even make it known that we boyfriend and girlfriend cause I dont wanna claim him amd know he flirt with his eyes and look like a idiot so when I make friends I dony invite him cause im afraid he might flirt with them so we fuss cause every once id househile I wanna go chill Edited January 13, 2013 by tnewell
darkmoon Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 (edited) ask him (don't demand or argue) to stop, i'd give him one last chance to if he doesn't then break away, insecurity is no aphrodisiac, and you know he has no proof no basis for accusing you, look, any one needs a better deal than this guy's offering, i think he likes to win the fights so he accuses you to remove the spotlight from him, so run, quick, or just give him one last chance to be nice to you, one last week Edited January 13, 2013 by darkmoon
loversquarrel Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 what do you expect? He's 24. You're 37. It comes with the territory.
Ribbons Undone Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 u need to break up with ur boyfriend. if he is telling his ex's that he loves them and wants to move with them, then what is left for u to do but leave him. he doesn't deserve u. u should just move on.
KraftDinner Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 what do you expect? He's 24. You're 37. It comes with the territory. Not a good excuse.
NoMagicBullet Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 You've been together a year... so all of this didn't just happen overnight. You two never really had a serious conversation about expectations for the relationship, am I right? Usually when someone is cheating, they get paranoid about their partner cheating. Odds are good that your bf is cheating. At the very least, he's bringing a lot of drama into the relationship that need not be there. He's obviously not serious about the relationship; just because you've started living together doesn't suddenly mean that both partners are serious about making the relationship work. Questions is, why are you putting up with this? Why have you been putting up with this?
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