bodhesatva Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 Do you really need to ask? I love men but come on, we all know things come out of their mouths in the pursuit of sex that they absolutely do not genuinely feel/mean (other than maybe at that very nanosecond). I don't think it's intentional deception in most cases. Hormones just seem to take over and retardedness ensues. Spare yourself the agony of actually mulling this over. Absolutely agreed. You can even ask this question more broadly: "Do people sweet talk to get things that they want?" The answer is, "Obviously, yes." Men looking for sex are just one example of this. 1
scratch Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 (edited) Give out a lot of compliments, tons of sweet talking just to get laid? I wonder how common it is for men to lie extensively for the sole purpose of having sex with a girl. By what I now remember, the only extremely sweet talker I've had turned into a long term relationship. Now there is another guy who kind of acts the same but responds to my texts late and just does not act reliable. I'm almost pretty sure he is full of it and cannot be trusted. Could he really be genuine? What are some of the things he has said that you feel are not genuine? If a guy wants to have sex with you, and he gives you a compliment, isn't it a pretty fair bet that the compliment is not a lie? On the other hand, there is not much correlation between how much a guy compliments you and his desire to have exactly the kind of relationship you want. It troubles me that men are often considered deceitful for no other reason than wanting the wrong kind of relationship. What kind of lies would be effective in getting a girl to have sex? Lying about his accomplishments or wealth? Lying about his desire to settle down and have a family? I am genuinely asking women in this thread for anecdotes that go: "I would never have slept with him, but then he told XYZ lie, and because of it I slept with him." Edited January 13, 2013 by scratch
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