AlisaMarie Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 So a year goes by. I have been what he likes to say "seeing" someone that is a really sweet guy, but gosh, this isn't for me. I am a relationship person, I like to spend time, hang out, relax, watch movies, hold hands, take picutures... isn't that what we all want in relationships? Well I guess if you're into the person! So I call him my "not so serious boyfriend." Am I in love with him? Hell yes. Am I waiting for him to snap out of his relationship duldrum and realize how much he cares, eff yea! Sadly, he hasn't budged. He has been part of every aspect in my life. He's met everyone, comes to my house, has been invited to things... but there is this big fat brick wall I can't get past. He even invited me to meet his family last month and I thought this was a breakthrough... after that, he continues to "go out" without even asking me, bickers over twitter and facebook things, and even told me that I act like I have to know where he's at, who he's with, and implied I am a pest. I have only asked things like "what are you up to tonight?" And, "aww any good friends going to be there?" NON INTRUSIVE!!! HELLO? I am making conversation! Adults do that. So it's Satuday night, people with boyfriends that are off on Saturdays usually hand out with them, right? It's not odd to go to THEIR house and meet their people right? It's been over a year for crying out loud. So as my rant comes to an end, tell me the obvious, he's usuing me for sex and a backup incase nobody better comes along. I have had these converstations with him, he claims we are exclusive and he's not seeing anybody else. Also, for someone that "hates facebook" but is constantly on it- your relationship status says "single." Is single the new taken?
Missing Him Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 I would be suspicious that he's sleeping around, but that's just me. "Single" as a relationship status on FB despite telling you that the two of you are exclusive and meeting each other's families? The agitation over being asked questions? It just sounds like the signs of someone who isn't being faithful.
Author AlisaMarie Posted January 14, 2013 Author Posted January 14, 2013 I would be suspicious that he's sleeping around, but that's just me. "Single" as a relationship status on FB despite telling you that the two of you are exclusive and meeting each other's families? The agitation over being asked questions? It just sounds like the signs of someone who isn't being faithful. It is all of the signs. That's why I'm mad at myself for believing that he is "different" and just taking things super slow.
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