Ginaa Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 Lets say if you had previous in your life fallen in love before, if you then later met someone who you think you are in love with again, surely that should eradicate the love from your past. If not would this suggest that you are not truly in love with the man of your present?
ScienceGal Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 Finding a new love does not eradicate love from your past, nor does in invalidate it. There are many kinds of love, and as we grow and mature, gain experience, we learn more about what kind of person we are and what kind of person we would like a partner to be. I loved my first high school boyfriend, and I will love the man I marry. Very different kinds of love, but both very real.
Author Ginaa Posted January 13, 2013 Author Posted January 13, 2013 I mean love as in you wouldnt mind still being with them. Shouldnt the new person take away that feeling if you really loved them?
ScienceGal Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 In a perfect world, sure. But that doesn't always happen. The point is, would you go back to the past lover? If so, you're not ready to move on to anything serious someone new.
Author Ginaa Posted January 13, 2013 Author Posted January 13, 2013 I would, but I can't. Long distance ...
ScienceGal Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 If after a few months someone isn't generating warm feelings in you enough to not want the other guy, then move on. You will meet someone who does. Or, move to be close to the first guy. 1
na49 Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 The word "love" is so f*cked up that I have no idea what it means to be honest. When two people who just met say that they love each other do they mean it? Do they love each other to the same degree that my parents love each other? When I say that I love my cat, do I love him the same way that I love to eat pizza? I love to play video games, do I love to play video games the same way that I love my family? I love my friends, but do I love them the same way as my brother? What the hell does it mean when an ex girlfriend or boyfriend says that they still love you after dumping you? I have no idea... You could still love the man from your past, but not enough to date him. If you do, then you better let your man of the present know ASAP. 1
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