Maneater Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 This guy I've been talking to for almost 6 weeks now has to be female or something. So I did inadvertently call his penis small the first time we hooked up but I more than made up for it! Every time I post a food pic on my Facebook, he'll immediately ask me who I was with but at the same time won't ask him out to dinner himself. So last night we were discussing what our weekend plans are (10pm) and he tells me he's going out to dinner but then he doesn't know. I text him an hour later- ohh for tomorrow?? He then doesn't answer the question and texts me back - Where are you right now? So by now, I assume he wants a booty call given the time, so I do text at my apt, where are you?? He doesn't answer me back quickly so then I text another 20 min later, Come over. I DO NOT HEAR FROM HIM AT ALL. THen I see on his twitter today, he's advocating one of our mutual friends (guy) that he knows I don't like.
truth_seeker Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 How did you inadvertently blurt out that his d-ck was small? Please don't tell me you're one of those girls that anything less than 7 inches is small. lol.
Author Maneater Posted January 12, 2013 Author Posted January 12, 2013 How did you inadvertently blurt out that his d-ck was small? Please don't tell me you're one of those girls that anything less than 7 inches is small. lol. Please refer to this previous thread I started. no laughing. hahah http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/366067-men-how-offensive
edgygirl Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 You started by playing games with him, and now you're upset he's doing the same thing? Sorry but if you want to be taken seriously, you have to be less childish next time. 1
Author Maneater Posted January 12, 2013 Author Posted January 12, 2013 You started by playing games with him, and now you're upset he's doing the same thing? Sorry but if you want to be taken seriously, you have to be less childish next time. point taken. however I did NOT 'play games' INTENTIONALLY. unfortunately luck was not on my side. I missed every text by accident or timing was off with our other mutual friend who was putting a damper to the situation.
edgygirl Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 point taken. however I did NOT 'play games' INTENTIONALLY. unfortunately luck was not on my side. I missed every text by accident or timing was off with our other mutual friend who was putting a damper to the situation. I dunno OP... you sound a little like me in my 20s... saying things without taking others feelings into consideration etc... it's what people call "drama" and men run away from. Who am I to judge but you seem to act in ways that are not conductive to finding someone good for you. If you're into having ONS only or dating around it's fine, but if you're looking for someone to take you more seriously you should have a look at your behavior with men and what image you pass... a good example to start with is your screen name here, you know? Hope you don't get offended by this, just trying to help. 1
Author Maneater Posted January 12, 2013 Author Posted January 12, 2013 OP, you sound more like Maneaten'd. haha may be the case. please feel free to read my previous thread. I would say it's more bc I put my foot in my mouth way too many times. Some may label me a 'bitch'. I'd like to claim its b/c I'm out of the dating loop. I was in LTR for 5 years. This is first guy I started dating.
Author Maneater Posted January 12, 2013 Author Posted January 12, 2013 I dunno OP... you sound a little like me in my 20s... saying things without taking others feelings into consideration etc... it's what people call "drama" and men run away from. Who am I to judge but you seem to act in ways that are not conductive to finding someone good for you. If you're into having ONS only or dating around it's fine, but if you're looking for someone to take you more seriously you should have a look at your behavior with men and what image you pass... a good example to start with is your screen name here, you know? Hope you don't get offended by this, just trying to help. that pretty much sums it up. except that I do not say anything offensive intentionally. I have no issues with it just being a hook up because thats what I want now and he lives very close by so i figured it would be convenient, which I also mentioned after we hooked up. (maybe that I was another foot in mouth moment). All I want him to do is just come over to my place or invite to his. I'm thinking of deactivating my Facebook. Too many men and women get too offended and 'read' into my status updates. All I do is post photos of food. I don't post about politics or post egotistical updates like - i'm so gorgeous today.
edgygirl Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 Okay but even for hookups keep in mind next time not to tell a man he has a small ****, right? Being playful is one thing, being offensive is another. I'm not sure, but my feeling is even for a hookup you started things in the wrong foot and insisting with this guy will only give you headaches now.
Author Maneater Posted January 12, 2013 Author Posted January 12, 2013 Okay but even for hookups keep in mind next time not to tell a man he has a small ****, right? Being playful is one thing, being offensive is another. I'm not sure, but my feeling is even for a hookup you started things in the wrong foot and insisting with this guy will only give you headaches now. You're totally right. I'm probably frustrated with myself and my stupid comments. I feel like I more than made up for them though. Texting him über compliments etc. maybe he thought they were fake though at this point. I left him alone for a couple days last time and then he came around.
Author Maneater Posted January 12, 2013 Author Posted January 12, 2013 UPDATE: Texting him now and decided to take my own advice that I would give to others. I straight out asked him if he had a GF because its been a while since we hooked up last. He immediately text back saying 'heck no. no gf'. So I said, so I have to beg for sex everyday lol? He text back saying 'no but I like begging' haha. So then I said - good, so you have women in rotation. well bump me up the list bc I have needs hahah
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