beauty0815 Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 So I've started a new job and started dating this guy. although he works in the same facility as me he doesn't work in the same department. Well anyway whenever we saw eachother we would juat smile and say hi. well eventually I stepped up to the plate and gave my friend my number to give to him. He waited one and a half weeks to actually use it via text. well we got to texting almoat everyday and he seemed like a great guy no children religious nice personality. we atill smile and speak when we see each other at work. we went one a date officially at a restaurant and we chilled at his house one time alao. So I guess officially two dates but then he turned his phone off n it all went bad. to backtrack alittle bit when we hungout out his house he introduced me to his friends n sisters and brothers. we also watched a movie then got into deep convo. He told me how he just got out of a long term relationship four years and he qanted to take it slow although he can see us going futher in the future but not now. he also told me how his ex is crazy does popups at his house calls and texts him like crazy. he wants to get rid of her but doesn't know when and how. He also doesn't want to put me in the middle od it because onw time ahe poppwd up when he was with another girl and they fought. so yes I did tell hin id wait for him. anyway a little before he turned his phone off texts by me got unanswered till tge next day or hours apart. so his phone has been off for about five weeks and the only time I saw him is at work. Oh yea fyi the only reason I knew his phone was off was cause he told me at work and he doesn't feel like getting it on. a week after it was off he asked me at work if I wanted to hangout abd that he'd call of someone else phone I said sure but he never called. So he also asked me out again but did call and cancel. Now we have had no contact just him smiling at me when he sees me and giving me thumbs up nomore asking me out. So yesterday I asked him out he hesitated and said not today but lets try tomorrow I said sure but then he asked for my number again because his phone is lost so now I'm waiting and no call yet. my question why is he not motivated to get in contact with me? also am I a rebound? I really like him but he's giving mixed signals. why introduce me to people if ur not that serious about me.
Keenly Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 Sounds like exactly what happened to me recently, though I was the the guy you described. Met a girl at work, at first I was interested, or thought I was. As I found out more about her, though I realized nothing was wrong with or bad about her, I just realized she was not for me.
Author beauty0815 Posted January 12, 2013 Author Posted January 12, 2013 But why did you not tell her you were no longer interested. This guy still said yes to the date but hesitated but always talks to me smiles and says my name
Violet11 Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 I don't understand saying nothing, if he's over it, just hoping the other person gets it never works. It could be the co-worker thing--I'd be fine with going out a few times to get to know a guy co-worker better but I'd want one of us to change jobs if it got more serious...and that's not an option for you if you just started working there. Whatever it is, if a discussion is too hard he should at least send a text to end it.
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