cottom Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 A month ago she left me. We had been together for 2 years and the first year and a half was amazing and we was in love. Then she went to uni and i went to uni still close by but we were stuck in the same routine, i would always come to hers and we would do her work (boring). We were getting stressed and these other boys were flirting with her, one of them looks just like me and she said "he makes her happy" basically how our relationship was before we got stuck in the routine. After my friend died i had a go at her for not seeing me off at the coach station to go sort stuff out with dead friend, i went nc for a few days but had left it on a sour note. This other boy who is in her uni hung out with her and she fell for him. A month later and we havent seen each other, ive done all the begging and pleading and crying and talking to her friends mistakes for a month. This girl i was in love with, completely head over heels and for the month id done communication courses to learn to control emotions, id seen a relationship counciller to show me where i went wrong. I planned for us during this break to go away on weekend breaks, visit new towns, go and do a load of stuff we dont usually do but she likes this other boy who looks just like me that she has banter with that she did for the first year and a half together. The problem with this boy though, his best friend introduced him to my gf because his best friend is in love with my gf, he is obsessed with her. And this boy has moved right in and even got off with her infront of his best friend. So what kind of person is he if all he cares about is what he wants and not hurting his best friend? Secondly this boy has no hope in life, he is about to become a university drop out and does nothing for his future. Third this boy is in the same classes as my gf/ex gf, he is in the same friend group as her, he is in the same building as her so he will always be there...how can you start a relationship with someone who is always there? How will she concentrate on her course and everything with a bf litterally 100m away constantly? And they break up she will hate going to see him everyday, the friends will all split up choosing sides etc.... im starting NC today for good, shes 19 im 21, hes 19 also...how long does it usually take? never been here before, last exgf also left me for GIG syndrome and met a boy that was another me within 2 weeks
TaraMaiden Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 Read the No contact, updated 2013 link in my signature. All of it. Then come back and see where you think you should go with this....
Tmo2 Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 (edited) Watch Corey wayne's videos and stick to no contact. She left you- You have to accept her decision, There is basically nothing you can do that will change her heart at this time. I have tried, many have, and it does not work. The only thing you can do is walk away. Don't accept being friends - and walk away. Edited January 12, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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