tk12 Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 Never posted on anything like this before... my story is me and my ex gf where together for 8 months, seperated once before but gave it another shot. It began to go great, we got engaged and I was loving my life with her and what we planned for the future together. We broke up a week today, she ended it, we were drunk and had a massive row over my mood swings and things id say over her looking at other people ECT which I admit I have said those things but are deeply sorry. I've visited the doctors this week to see if there was a problem that was making this happen to me and ive discovered I suffer from bipolar disorder, which is what has been making me do and say the things I have. I feel so empty and low right now. I've explained this to her and told her im going to get the help I need to help myself but she has text me saying im glad your getting the help yiu need now but as for what we had I dont know if it will work and that she isn't strong enough to go through it again and the same applies to her family. I wish there was just something I could say to her to show I can change and we could be happy and with help I wouldn't need to start all these arguments anymore but I know nothing I say or do will change her mind. I guess id just like to know if she's hurting as much as me and if shed ever miss me or think about me.
ScienceGal Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 I guess id just like to know if she's hurting as much as me and if shed ever miss me or think about me. Assume that she is hurting as much and give her space. Keep working to get yourself better and try not to worry about the relationship right now. It's only been a week, so you can message her to tell her this if that makes you feel better. But then, back off 100%
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