AshleyBT Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 Ok, so I'm wondering if anyone has ever been in this situation before. My ex and I were talking on facebook, it was good at first, just small talk, nothing too bad. I asked him to check my email and he said he couldn't find it and told me to resend it. I told him I was scared to and he asked why. I told him because I was scared what he would say. Then, out of nowhere he asks if I had sex with someone else. Wtf? who asks that? I said no, why would he think that and he said he was just wondering why I would think he would be mad. I told him because sometimes when you want to tell someone something, your afraid to be hurt. He told me he grew out of that fear but said I know what you mean. This was all because of a reconciliation letter. I resent it to him last night and havn't got a response yet. Sometimes they don't always go through. My question is, has anyone ever had an ex ask them this? And if so, did it ever mean anything? Please be nice.
veggirl Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 He was probably asking you so that he would know what to say if you asked me. ie; if you say no, he'll say no. if you say yes, he will feel comfortable telling you yes (if he has slept with someone else). I think you should stop chasing him, he knows how you feel...leave the ball in his court...
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