truth_seeker Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 If they hang out with me at least once a week for a while it usually turns out they are in fact interested in dating. and that is usually revealed when another woman starts sniffing around. Do you mean that if a woman hangs out with you and her friends start hanging out, too, then the woman is interested?
Imported Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 So how do women expect men to know the difference between playing hard to get/acting aloof, and not being interested? Woman doesn't like you, she ignores you Woman likes you, she ignores you Somebody shoot me They will act interested first, fairly obvious....but still will be making most guys wonder. Then when you test the waters and start going for her, they pull the rug out from under you and you're suppose to chase them like they have no interest and it was all your idea. I especially like it when they also try to make me jealous by flirting with other guys in my face and by especially like, I mean I don't. At all and in fact lost a lot of respect for them. How do I know that they are playing this game and I was not just a by-stander falsely imagining things? Because I go after it and usually succeed. And by succeed, I mean I ****ed her. Best example I have was a few friends and I went on a trip. I always thought one the girls in our group was interested in me and I like her, but I never did anything about it. On the beginning of the trip, she was really going out of her way to give me attention. Not obviously flirting with me really, just a lot of attention. Then it stopped. And to the surprise of me and my friends, she started hanging out a lot with our friend that is fat and not really attractive. I thought of him as the safe guy for her and didn't take him seriously as a contender. Me, that friend and her somehow ended up in his room for drinks. He was sitting on his bed and she jumps on the bed with him and went in like she was going to kiss him, staring him down and ****. I told them to have fun and use rubbers and I'd be down at the bar. Before I could even order my first drink, she showed up and ordered my drink for me. We talked a bit and I thought things were cool and then she starts flirting with a totally obvious "player" and his group of homo's and by homo's, I mean guys that just go to bars, drink alcohol and never approach girls. I decided to play along and made friends with the "player" that she was flirting with. Tried to steer him away, not worried about the other dudes, because they were non-contenders. I could see her smirking a lot when I did this. I know it was pretty obvious to her what I was doing and why. I was telling the "players" friends a story, turned my back on the girl and the player....and they both disappeared on me, went where ever they went. I shrugged it off, not chasing. **** that. I went back to BSing with the "players" friends. @15min later, one of the "players" friends comes back to the group to excitedly report that the "player" and that girl was heading up to the "players" room. That was the only time I doubted myself with her. Not much I can do, so I ordered some food cause I was hungry. An hour or so later, the player came back and congratulated me and actually told me that I "won". It was obvious to him that she was trying to make me jealous and they didn't do anything together. However, by that point, not only do I not respect the girl, I even stopped liking her. When I said I doubted myself, I mean I felt sad. I don't like people that purposely make me feel sad. I didn't do anything farther with that stupid bitch. As far as I am concerned she ****ed my fat friend and then that "player". I went after and enjoyed my time on that break with a different girl instead.
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 Perhaps she really doesn't like you and you're just reading what you want to see into her behaviour. 99.9% of the time this. If a woman likes you within 5 minutes of meeting you, she'll shout it from the rooftops.
phineas Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 Do you mean that if a woman hangs out with you and her friends start hanging out, too, then the woman is interested? If she's interested & thinks i'm a catch she doesn't bring me anywhere near her friends until she has locked me down with sex.
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