cottom Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 She had a 1.5 year relationship and that ended badly (he gave her an STI). I was their and we got together a few weeks after they split and we was happy together in love for 2 years, we talked about marriage and we went on holidays and everything. In september she started at her university (a local one so she could stay close to me) and she started becoming a girl who went partying and got wasted and had to be carried home a few times, she was never like that before. Me and her got stuck in the same routine, me come to hers and we watch a film or we go for a walk in to town or we do her work. Other boys were hitting on her non stop and wouldnt take her hints that she didnt want to be with them. 3 weeks ago i came hers, we went to the cinema and on the way she cried about how these two boys keep hitting on her and they are both really ugly and she just wants to be friends because they have a laugh. We then went back to hers and did her work, we then went to bed and hugged all night and she said how much she loves me. Next day early in morning i had to go up north cause a friend died and i was seeing my other friend. She refused to get out of bed and i left without a hug and had a go at her and said it was over (she took that seriously) Two days later my friend spoke to her and she said she still loved me and wanted it to work so badly, then the nex day i came home and shed been flirting with him and started to get feelings for him, met her up 3 days after that and she said if she was to forgive me and take me back then i would have to get rid of my social networks etc which i did and we kissed and hugged. We went on a break of sorts so she could revise for her first term exams and we would talk about us after them. A few days later she met this boy in town and they had fun and in the end they kissed (with tongue). I ****ed up the no contact cause i kept giving in and talking to her, she finished her exams though and started talking to me nicely and she said she just wants time to be alone to find out what she likes, and then that night she went out for her birthday and she got with the boy she kissed previously. She told me that looks dont mean anything, he makes her feel happy and they have "banter" together. But yesterday she was telling me she wants to be alone she doesnt know id she wants me or him and doesnt want to see me for a while to have space but then goes out, meets him and then this morning telling me she doesnt want me and to go away. Last time we saw face to face we was madly in love 3 weeks ago, now she tells me she doesnt love me and she wants this boy who she said was really ugly, who is in the same classes as her, same friend group and same building so she will just get so bored of him fast. What do i do?
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