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i broke up with my gf but i just have questions


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is it possible to love someone TOO much??

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YEAH, but there is a thin line between love and obsession.

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maybe...if your love is on the edge of desparation...for example, if you love them so much, all of your happiness is solely dependent upon the two of you being together.

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i know, i can assure you im not obsessed with her...i just love her sooooooo incredibly much. i mean the good thng im grateful for is that we're still best friends, like its really cool, i do things with her that i normally do with my guys friends, but shes so cool. sadly, we're not in love anymore. i mean were together for 2 years, to some thats alot and to some its not...but heres the tricky part...im not exxagerating when i say this but her parents...are just theyre inhuman. they dont let her do ANYTHING and i mean that. so we dont see each other THAT much. we see each other here and there. like her mom ruined new years for her, thsi one day us adn this group were sposed to go to this huge pool, almost ruined her bday, she ruined her christmas, shes jstu crazy. so crazy that amongst those 2 years, i havent met her parents one time in my entire life. yea...but anyways, but we're so different from other relationships, you coudlnt tell we were goign out by looking at us when we go out, we're only intiamate when we're alone. and we had so many plans for the future, but the reason she broke up with me was because i was too forceful about those plans. i wasnt rude or mean abotu any of it, i was so in love, that i made it sound like i planned our whoel future myself, which of course wasnt the intention. but i guess its too late now. i wish it didtn have to end that way...

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my happiness doesnt solely rely on us being together, its just that...well, shes so special, and we would skip school sometimes and she would come over my house (the only time she could cuz her mom wouldnt let her go out on a moments notice let alone to a guys house) and we'd skip half of school or sometimes the whole day and do intimate things in my bed but not have sex, for my own reasons..but we would be so happy, an dit hurts me so much knowing that when i grow up and have my own place that it'll never happen. it feels like she'll always be afraid that i might come on to her to get back together and for that she wouldnt want to come over or do anythign with me.

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i dont know, i think i suffocate her with me...

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I can see why!

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huh what do you mean?

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