mollycat5252 Posted August 20, 2004 Posted August 20, 2004 I recently decided to move to minnesota to finish up college. After my decision was made I found out that an old boyfriend that I dated off and on in my earlier college years was now living in the same city that I was moving to. So I got in touch with him, and for about two months we talked on the phone off and on, it was mostly him calling me to. At least every other day. The conversations went really well. I had taken a trip to the city with a couple of my friends, and we all met up and went to dinner and out for drinks. As far as I now things went really well. The both of were introducing the other as each others "friend". which I was completely fine with. Now after the trip he is not calling me at all, and I can't think of why for the life of me. I have tried calling him several times and he won't call back. I told him (in messages) if he does not want to be friends that is o.k., I won't be hurt. I have asked him to please just tell me because I am worried that something has happened to him. I don't understand how you just completely stop calling someone, and then you can't tell them why? This is bugging the hell out of me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am tempted to call him up at work. What should I do???????
Touch_of_Naughtiness Posted August 20, 2004 Posted August 20, 2004 Maybe he's just busy. If it bothers you that bad just call him!!! I think it's just your head playing tricks on you, but that problem can be solved in less than 2 minutes by calling and asking him.
EC Posted August 20, 2004 Posted August 20, 2004 Your causing all that extra worrying for nothing. Just call him at work and say you were worried. How long has it been since the last time you both spoke?
Author mollycat5252 Posted August 20, 2004 Author Posted August 20, 2004 We have not talked since I said goodbye to him in minnesota, when I was there to vist. Which is going on a month now. He has a cell phone. Which he called me on all the time. I have left him messages saying that I am worried about him and I am wondering why he has not called. I also said in one of the messages just to let me know that he is o.k., because I am worried.
EC Posted August 20, 2004 Posted August 20, 2004 I dont what to say.. yeah a month is a while. I say just call his job one last time to make sure... Then if hes there you can ask him what the deal is? You wont know unless you call him at work. If not then wait for his call back.
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