LittleStar Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 Before christmas i went through a very distressing experience, my ex was there for me at first but then just broke off all contact and wouldn't speak to me. I feel completely lost without him, he's the person i wanted to spend my life with. He's changed his number and deleted me on facebook. He emailed saying he found the whole experience really distressing and hopes that we could be friends one day. I'm still completely in love with him, but have a feeling i may never see him again. I don't know what to do. I feel like he was my world and i cant move on. I really want him back when we are both in healthier places in our lives but at the moment i feel i cant live without speaking to him or being able to see him. We broke up a while ago also and tried to stay friends but ended up getting back together. I miss him so much. I know we cant be together at the moment but how can we ever be if i cant contact him? I just don't know what to do or how to move on. I'm completely devastated and cant function day to day. I don't know what to do. Any advice would be great.
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 Maybe in time, you and him still could be. Despite the NC...who knows? But live; you gotta go out. Have fun with friends, and create the happiness you deserve: then find someone else...do not wait forever... I am sorry, this isn't a good answer to your problem. I'm hoping this bumps you up, and a better poster helps you(I am not thinking so well ATM...)
FailedFirstLove Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 Aww it's a rough time. And you will want him bak right now. It's that attachment stage. Even after a month u will still go back and forth. Try not to panic right now. I know it's impossible!!! But try push URSELF to get back up. It will be hard to think his not going to come back at this point but think right now u have to live without him. Do your thing. Accomplish ur goals. Whether he comes back in a few months or years then let fate decide. After awhile u won't want to hear what his doing cause it will send u bak to the black hole u were in. Please don't do the begging I did that and it really doesn't do anything! Worked maybe first time but he will break up with u again and then there will be a time u can't beg him to come back. Take care. Read posts in here please go through same things
TaraMaiden Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 You don't relate what the 'distressing experience' was so it's kind of hard to measure his reaction... something obvioulsy touched a nerve and over=stepped his 'boundaries'. You have to maybe concentrate on whether he has been judgemental, biased, or prejudicial in his actions, and ask yourself whether this makes for a comfortable companion, one whom you'd be happy to stay beside... I don't know, just reaching in the dark, here.....
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