t1m Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 WARNING LONG READ! So I wanted to go out with this girl for senior prom. I known her for about 3 years... She is a friend. A friend found out and told her that I wanted to go out with her... which is completely false (I only wanted to get close enough so I can go out to prom with her without looking awkward). So we really didn't talk to eachother or had any significant contact for the last 3 monthes.... understandable, even though I only wanted to go to prom with her as friends... Anyway, last week she started to get "touchy" on me. I was waiting for my friend to go chill, and she came down the stair case, by herself, and asked Who I was waiting for before giving me a soft punch in the abs and leaving her hand their for a second. Everytime I talked to her since, she held her gaze with my gaze, always smiling, always joking and making fun of me playfully. Two days ago, I was looking for a friend outside of the class I and she was in. I turned around and there she was. She raised her foot and playfully touched me around the you know what area. Then she giggled, held the door for me to class while looking back at me, and sat down. Later during that class I caught her staring at me and smiling when I said asked for a pen to the class (it was an inside joke with her, but I caught her staring at me when I was looking for who would give it to me.) Today when I was with her friend, and I was with my friend, we bumped eachother again, She didn't look at me once, and told my friend about how hard her test was (they were in the same Calc class) Im dealing with some personal stuff right now, so I didn't really bother trying to communicate with her cause my mind was simply not on her.... All the other experiences when I caught her smiling at me, touching me, etc, was all initiated by her... And this is what confused me so much, because I thought she said she wasn't looking for a relationship with me (even Though I wasn't in the first place) and I though I blew my chances for prom with her. So why is she doing these things right now? She doesn't have a boyfriend or anything and she is somewhat a pretty shy person in public. It makes no sense... Thanks in advance for replies.
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