almosteverythingx Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 and then broken up with someone to find time apart you did actually love them it was just caused from confusion from having a bad patch? I have been through this before, I was just wondering if anyone else has. Q 2. if so did your ex take you back when you realised?
HARPER100 Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 Yes, only once and of all the relationships I've had it was the worst one to get over. Despite my best efforts my ex didn't take me back and I don't blame her for that. While the whole experience sucked big time I think it helped me grow up. I've certainly never been so casual with other peoples feelings since.
Jono85 Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 questions for you ppl, if u don't mind... 1. how long were you together before feeling that way/breaking up? 2. how long were you apart before you realized and went to ask for them back? 3. had you dated other ppl during that time? 4. how did you all of a sudden realize you still loved them?...ie. did you run into them? did they call you? was it just how crappy the new bf/gf was comparitively? like how did the feelings just all of a sudden come back, without any contact or something prompting it? lonliness maybe? how did they become good enough again, over time? thanks.
hudson701 Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 Will be keeping an eye on this one before I comment...had plenty happen to me these past 7 months and going through hell right now because of ex having G.I.G.S
Author almosteverythingx Posted January 12, 2013 Author Posted January 12, 2013 My case is quite bad. I lived with a he'll of a lot guilt after don't you worry. 1. we'd been together for a year and about nine month. we didn't break up... I cheated on him with a guy on and off for two month. reason why is because my current bf was taking me for granted big time. but I don't condole what I did it was disgusting and so wrong. 2. n/a we even lived together... I sound so awful right now. 3. ha well that guy. 4. the reason I realised what I'd done and how much I loved my bf stupidly came after the guy I was cheating on him showed his true colours. I realised my bf I had was a million times better person than this guy ever was. due to cheating on him it actually made me fall madly in love with him and made me realize how stupid and lucky I'd been. note we are no longer together now, it seems like he's going through a similar stage in his life but hasn't met anyone. He was a better person and dumped me instead of been with me for the sake. also I may add I never told him about me cheating, some would argue I should of told him and been honest but I felt like I saved heart ache for both of us even if it was the selfish way of doing things.
sotoman Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 actually my ex has done that to me once or twice. it happens after i screw up in one way or another. like when i was drinking alot, (i quit drinking) or when i was taking her for granted. she said she was breaking up with me, but i thought of it as giving her space, since after a month or two she and i would make up. also, i make an effort to learn why she was mad at me, and i always correct the mistakes i made.
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