WIDESTI Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 Here it goes, (I'll try to keep it short) fiance and I started dating only 2.5 years ago and things went VERY good (honeymoon part). After a few months we found out she was pregnant with our son who is now 19 months. I am 26 and she is 23. Since we became pregnant everything changed, neither one of us was ready and didn't know what to expect when our child was born. It felt like as if she was ignoring me all together after our child was born. I expected to be ignored somewhat because I know what happens between a new mom and her baby. But I was COMPLETELY ignored. After telling her how I felt and how I wanted a little time alone with her nothing changed. So I ended up doing my own thing on my own time like basketball league and going to the gym. I'm not putting the blame on her, she would do things like take care of the baby at night when I had work and not have me wake up So fast forward to today, towards the end when we started to fight more and more, conversations became nastier and nastier. Name calling began, we weren't respecting each other. We got into a big fight last week and have talked till we just saw a counselor yesterday. She brings up a lot of old things that have passed (fights and situations from the pregnancy) and I have said sorry for and thought we moved from. My fiance said she is the type to hold grudges and doesn't forget things. So when the counselor asked what we wanted to get out of it I said of course I want to make my relationship work for our family and she said she was tired of the fighting and disrespect and that she is not happy and doesn't love me the same. ***I recently opened escrow and just less than ONE WEEK ago she was saying how happy she was that we can move out of her parents and how she was excited to decorate and buy furniture and all. So I dont even know what to do now... ALL I wanted to do was provide for her and my son and be the best partner and dad I could I am the only one working and right now I'm giving her space. My son stays with her and she still wants me to be able to see him everyday which means go to her parents and spend time with him. So what does everyone think? Any thoughts? Still chance of being together?
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