worldoftrouble Posted August 20, 2004 Posted August 20, 2004 Hi, Right now I feel like I am in a world of trouble (hence the name hahaha). Well It all started last month. I met two guys over the web. I had a good rapport with both of them and I decided to go out with them on two diffferent occasions. Well with one of the guys, lets call him Dave, the connection was ok, but i only saw him as friend material. With Brad, the other guy, the connection was wonderful. Well obviously I started have more feelings for Brad, but at the same time I was scared to put all my eggs in one basket. So I continued dating both. Now I'm not in committed relationship with either of them, its just dating. Well one day, I found out that they both knew eachother from undergrad pretty well. They are friends, but they are not best friends. They stay in different towns and they rarely speak. I guess more so aquaintances. Well on my last date with Brad, he told me that he really likes and that am the first girl has liked in a while, but there is so much drama in his life, he feels like he can't be 100% there for me. He even said that I didn't have to wait for him. Well before the date ended, we kissed passionately and it almost lead to sex. But we both stopped. He stood his ground and said that he does not want to ruin things between us. Well as of late, Brad has been really busy so I rarely get to speak to him. Dave calls me all the time. Eventhough I'm not as into Dave emotionally as I am into Brad. Well a couple of nights ago, I was talking to Dave and we basically agreed that he could come over so that we could cuddle. Well we ended up going beyond cuddling and we had sex. At first I didn't feel guilty, because I not in a relationship with either one of the guys. But as I thought about it, I began to feel really sad because Brad is my hearts desire and Dave was the one that was there for me. Right now I feel like I am in such a akward situation. I don't know what to do or say. I discussed this issue wth Dave, and we decided to take it easy until I figured out what I wanted. I told him not to tell Brad, he said he has not reason to tell. I rather be the one that mentions it. The thing is, I don't know how he is going to take it, if and when he finds out. Should I date Brad, Dave, or neither. What is the best course of action?
youcandealw/it Posted August 21, 2004 Posted August 21, 2004 if your going to have sex w/ the guy he surely is worth going out w/.
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