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for a couple of months i m suffering from agrophobia. actually i just found out what is agrophobia. till now i just knew that i feel i don't deserve to be love and i know why. i m an short guy, only 4ft 9inchs, and i have stammering so i cant talk properly(well i can when i m not nervous but knowing that i have it , make me nervous when i am around people). so u see i m not a very social person.

i got reasons to feel worthless. i know that if someone love me(doesnt matter how she look or how old she is) i shall love her 10 times more and try everything in possible to keep her happy but all i feel is that i dont deserve anyone. how can i when i cant even talk properly, how will the girl feel when we walking on the streets and people bully me for my height, how can i let that happen to someone i love.

 

i dont see any way out from it. i spend most of my days logging in to fb or studying to get a good job. i dont go to friends places or talk to them, never ask a girl for a date and now i even dont feel like going to meet my parents i even feel like they r so good parents that they didnt deserve a son like me

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First off, nobody is worthless. We are all special in our own ways.

 

Second off, if you can't love and trust yourself, nobody else will. You need to stop thinking such vile thoughts about yourself -- it's not healthy. Stop it right now and don't look back.

 

Try being a bit more confident in certain situations. Start turning negative thoughts into positive thoughts! Most importantly, just be yourself. If you are that, then everything else will fall into place.

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EVERY SINGLE ONE OF US IS VALUABLE! WE ALL DESERVE TO BE LOVED!!!!

 

Isolating yourself makes it worse. Don't! Go and be with your family and friends and be yourself.

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