lisamarie Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 first of all.... this guy has done more to hurt me unintentionally trying to be with the mother of his children than I have hurt him this once. She sends him photos of herself naked and is the bane of my existence. I have been coached so much to leave him because no one who was sane would go through what I have just to be with someone you basically met year ago. I constantly hear about his wifes sex life and how she loves to have her new boyfriends penis in her mouth and how she never did that for him. I have woken up to her in the house while i was sleeping because I work graveyards and it has been hell. Now before I met him I was talking with this guy who I thought...thought then he was cute and I sent him a couple of photos.....huuuuge mistake he is a pig! he says things to me that I am surprised would come out of anyones mouth, even about my feet. I never thought feet fetishes existed. Now... I love....LOVE my man he gave me his mothers wedding band that she left him before she died. This is the man I want to marry.... so obviously I hadn't spoken to foot guy in a long time. well I put a picture of me on Facebook he really liked so he started texting me telling me how beautiful I look. I do not know why I cannot tell a guy to just **** right off but I cannot, in my business I often prospect guys who are actually prospecting me and they try and get into my pants.... well i learned my ****ing lesson thats for sure! be a bitch or they don't get the hint. anyways, i told my boyfriend this guy was contacting me again an it didn't bother him, last night he started going on about how he wished he had a girlfriend, i told him to quit the rigs..which of course wasn't going to happen big money big debt so i was like hmmmm lots of money or regular pussy hmmmmm. lol, i thought it was funny, i thought the whole conversation I had I was being funny. well it got worse, he brought up how he wished him and i had met up ad ****ed and how he jacks off to the photos i sent him almost 2 years ago... again....heres where i **** up....I didn't tell the guy to **** off.... I have a boyfriend that I love and cherish... I made jokes and put lots of lol and told him porn hub is a good website.... like go jack off buddy god... so I asked my man if a girl is hitting on you and you don't want to hurt their feelings what do you say.... this guy is also a client ( I should have said..... I am your financial planner do not sexually harass me you pig!!) I just did not want to be a bitch... this guy was suppose to be a friend after all...a gross pig friend but also a client. my man said he would just be like I have a girlfriend so I did and I told my man that once I said my man would be choked if he would find a conversation like this (I seriously worded everything wrong) he backed off. my man wanted to see the conversation... so I showed it to him. I didn't have anything to hide I am not sexually attracted to this loser.... he loves feet for christ sakes. I was dead wrong, he said everything I said as leading him on and flirtatious and distrustful and horrible and he yelled at me. I have never had a jealous boyfriend before in my life. I tried to drive somewhere its what I do when I can't handle a situation and he went into my car grabbed my keys and threw them into all the snow and demanded I go inside. I asked him if he wanted me to leave and he said I think is best.... and I started packing some suff and he started saying I didn't care and that I wasn't going to fight.... that if i left i am never to come back.... but he didn't know where our future was.... I am at a loss... yes.... I didn't handle the situation right at all...and I mean... he's gone now... not ever going to make contact with him transfer papers are going through like gone! this guy is.... but.... my man took back the promise ring.... he still hasn't hugged me or said he wants me around. he said he can't trust me and that he doesn't see me for who I am anymore.... everything I have put up with helping him with his kids and his ex girlfriend.... I **** up not keep it from him admit my faults and am thrown under he bus. My heart aches a deep ache.... I do not like foot fetish guy and should have told him to **** off....and I have learnt my lesson.... just... a horrible day.... and night.... I haven't slept and feel like a big bag of a holes.... but I am not a bad person....foot guy lives far enough away that I have only met him once and all i did was shake the guys hand..... while we started dating my boyfriend was still sleeping with his ex and carrying on a relationship. there isn't a day that goes by where we don't talk to her.... I don't know.... I am a piece of crap for doing what I did.... i thought it was funny and i was wrong there is nothing funny about this
Balzac Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 Listen to those who've advised you to dump him. This is a YOU problem. What are you enjoying about all of this negative drama?
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