Forgive.me Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 Breaking up after 9 years relationship... All happens 2 yrs ago, I had an affair with a guy and fell for him. Even though we ended the relationship but I still have feelings for him. I treated my boyfriend very cold and makes him very sad. I even told him that "I have feelings for another guy but did not disclose about the affair. He broke down. He loves me so much that he forgive me and even proposed. But I rejected him after all those arrangements. Few months later Im pregnant but I didnt wanna keep the baby. I wanted an abortion but he strongly disagree. After few months of arguments, he finally let me abort the child. After that I really change alot. I began to love him again and try to work out of relationship. But was too late. About 6 months ago, he told me that he couldn't forget and accept what I did. He wanted to break up and ask me to move but I beg him not to leave me. I regreted what I've done that cost our relationship and a loving husband. This drag till now and finally he couldn't take it anymore. I love him so much and I just wanted a second chance.
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 Who knows what the future holds? Sounds like you cheated him out of a lot. First love. Then a kid(he wanted.) Cheating alone usually ends miserably. Yet, you not only did that but aborted a kid he wanted...that hurts too. He pleaded with you....now the roles are reversed. He could come back, I doubt it. I hope he finds someone better than you...though. You don't love a person you treat like this...
FailedFirstLove Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 I'm sorry your hurting now, sometimes it takes a mistake to realize how special someone is to you. And sometimes your only given one chance. I know you must feel terrible for hurting him so much back then, but the mistakes made and you can't turn back time. maybe he will come back and gve you that second chance. But try not hope for it. Just live your life normally
Samilia Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 Breaking up after 9 years relationship... All happens 2 yrs ago, I had an affair with a guy and fell for him. Even though we ended the relationship but I still have feelings for him. I treated my boyfriend very cold and makes him very sad. I even told him that "I have feelings for another guy but did not disclose about the affair. He broke down. He loves me so much that he forgive me and even proposed. But I rejected him after all those arrangements. Few months later Im pregnant but I didnt wanna keep the baby. I wanted an abortion but he strongly disagree. After few months of arguments, he finally let me abort the child. After that I really change alot. I began to love him again and try to work out of relationship. But was too late. About 6 months ago, he told me that he couldn't forget and accept what I did. He wanted to break up and ask me to move but I beg him not to leave me. I regreted what I've done that cost our relationship and a loving husband. This drag till now and finally he couldn't take it anymore. I love him so much and I just wanted a second chance. Few months of argument? I'm kinda horrified here.. how far along were you? That'd be make run and not look back.
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