PJKino Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 Dude, what the crap is this?!? Stop it. Quit imposing limits on yourself. Your options, according to you, are to show interest and creep women out and not get laid, or shuffle around and avoid interaction with women and not get laid. You've sealed your fate. Ever entertain the notion that maybe there might be, you know, a 3rd option? When youve gone 32 years without you just except the fact that its probably never gonna happen.I tried the fluff rah rah positive be confident even without any results bs and it doesnt work
PJKino Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 Stop thinking of yourself as "unattractive" and stop thinking that your touching will automatically creep out all women; those negative thoughts simply hurt your chances with women. It's like you failed without even giving yourself a chance. Just because you feel that way doesn't mean that all women think you're unattractive. Even if not all im not willing to get rejected or thought of as a creep by most from heavy flriting and touching to eventually get one yes probably from someone im not even attracted to..
PJKino Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 It's hardly fluff or rah-rah....its an attitude you carry with you and a vibe you exude. Its not a false front or deluding yourself into thinking you're something you're not. It's about being good with yourself and cultivating a persona based on the best of who you are and walking around with confidence. Guys always think everything is about looks. Some parts are, but it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy if youre not careful....'I'm unattractive, so screw it....I'm just gonna give up'.....so then you let yourself go, maybe gain weight, let your hair get janky, wear sloppy clothes. Then you get even less attention, and your morale drops more. Then you let yourself get even more sloppy. Change the things you can control. Take physique...I'm sorry, but virtually everybody in the world could have a nice body if they really WANTED one. Everybody can throw on some kickin clothes. Everybody can do something with their hair/lack of hair to look better. Everybody can accentuate the good parts of their personalities. You don't have to 'accept' anything. Im not in bad shape and i like to dress nicely my problem is my face
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