denxnis Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 I was hoping my ex would leave me alone after she decided to throw 6 years down the toilet and get with her coworker. After I found out she cheated on me and continued to pursue this loser immediately after we broke up I was blown away; these past 2 1/2 months were easily the most difficult of my life. Today I found out she has gone behind my back and changed MY dog's registration information so that in the event that he gets lost she will get the dog, essentially stealing my husky whom I raised since he was 4 weeks old. I tried all types of tricks to change the information back to me, the rightful owner, but it looks like the only way it's going to happen is by me taking her to court which is going to drag out for months and just make my busy life even more busy and hellish... Regardless I am not writing this to get attention or pity, I have just come to the conclusion that some people are just selfish and bad and the best gift you can give them is the gift of goodbye. It's extremely difficult not to get angry or seek revenge but the way I see it she will suffer in the long run. I have to find a way to rid my life of her and hope that by being a nice and charitable person happiness will find me someday. I like to think that we live in a world where the number of good people outweigh the number of bad people, however it's people like this that just make me feel hopeless sometimes... Seriously though, To be wronged is nothing unless you continue to remember it. ~Confucius
TerpVet87 Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 It was a big turning point for me when I stopped asking "why is a nice girl like her acting so mean?" and I realized that what I was seeing was her real self. She is really a childish and mean girl who can pretend to be nice. 1
Samilia Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 I was hoping my ex would leave me alone after she decided to throw 6 years down the toilet and get with her coworker. After I found out she cheated on me and continued to pursue this loser immediately after we broke up I was blown away; these past 2 1/2 months were easily the most difficult of my life. Today I found out she has gone behind my back and changed MY dog's registration information so that in the event that he gets lost she will get the dog, essentially stealing my husky whom I raised since he was 4 weeks old. I tried all types of tricks to change the information back to me, the rightful owner, but it looks like the only way it's going to happen is by me taking her to court which is going to drag out for months and just make my busy life even more busy and hellish... Regardless I am not writing this to get attention or pity, I have just come to the conclusion that some people are just selfish and bad and the best gift you can give them is the gift of goodbye. It's extremely difficult not to get angry or seek revenge but the way I see it she will suffer in the long run. I have to find a way to rid my life of her and hope that by being a nice and charitable person happiness will find me someday. I like to think that we live in a world where the number of good people outweigh the number of bad people, however it's people like this that just make me feel hopeless sometimes... Seriously though, To be wronged is nothing unless you continue to remember it. ~Confucius Not sure what to say about the ex, but the dog thing would definitively piss me right off. Try and take my dog see what happens, for short.
FailedFirstLove Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 It's amazing how someone can change!! Someone who loved you as was willinging to do anything can turn bitter. Someone that once cared about you so much now doesn't give how hurt you are. It's a matter of what they want and when. They would step all over you just for their own sake. I have to say. No matter how much I have lost my love for them I would never step on someone who is already suffering! especially not someone I once loved so much. People r selfish. I get it. But their needs to be a limit. 1
MyAngel Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 I'm so sorry about the dog. What a dumb move on her part. You're right, some people are just bad. You're better off without them. Sometimes it takes a break up to realise this and see the other persons true side. So many things I have come to realise now. I am foolish for loving as much as I did sigh.
FailedFirstLove Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 I'm so sorry about the dog. What a dumb move on her part. You're right, some people are just bad. You're better off without them. Sometimes it takes a break up to realise this and see the other persons true side. So many things I have come to realise now. I am foolish for loving as much as I did sigh. Me too gave it my all near the end... I'm too scared to put so much in the next relationship again.. I don't want to be hurt like this again. I hope this is the biggest pain and loss ill have. Is it wrong to miss that bad person in ur life.. When he was good. Sometimes I wish I cud just go cry in front of him till he realizes who he was again
nsteen87 Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 Great Post. I can say that I really only started to heal when I stopped glorifying my ex and putting her on a pedestal. When I took a step back and was honest with myself, I realized how much of a *hitty person she really is! When and if I ever see her, I will thank her for the favor she has done me with the biggest grin on my face!
mullberry Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 Great post and really like the "to be wronged is nothing unless you continue to remember it" quote.. I could have done with that over the past two years.. See post 'found out ex was cheating on me 2 years after we broke up'.. That was a killer, not knowing what happened, remembering everyday what was lost and not truly understanding why and eventually the truth comes out... I too will do nothing in the hope that every time she is reminded about me or someone mentions cheating she will remember.. Anyway, I am now done. Hope you are too.
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