StarryChain Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 I got led on by some bitch I used to talk to. She faked a relationship with me for an entire summer and I wasted almost a year of my time on her. And now she's slowly sliding back into my head. Why? What do I do to stop this? I never want to feel that way again. Her friend keeps shouting my name to get my attention whenever she's around I don't understand why. She smiles and waves like everything is all peachy and happy but when we cross paths on our own she looks away.
stevie_23 Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 She sounds as if she's very immature (as is her friend) and has some issues. She FAKED your relationship? Really? Why bother? She may have truly had feelings for you...even if it didn't end the best way. You are letting her back into your head, because... 1. She is there in your life still and you have to see her 2. You probably got no real closure from the relationship ending (and especially not if you think she faked it. You'd have quite a bit of unresolved anger about that I'd assume) 3. You may miss the good bits of the relationship (fake or not) you had with her, and 4. You have not had enough time yet to move on, feel better about yourself and even develop feelings for someone else. THEN she'll be out of your head, I assure you. 1
spiderowl Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 You sounds really bitter. I doubt she faked a relationship with you, what woman would want to do that? You are the one calling her a bitch. That's not a term I'd expect any decent guy to use. It's understandable you are angry and hurt if she ended the relationship, but don't let that turn you into one of those guys who talks offensively about women. Maybe your attitude came through and that's why she ended it, not because she was faking anything. I think you need to be honest with yourself here and ask yourself whether your attitude to women wasn't something to do with this. I am genuinely sorry you were hurt because I do know how that feels. There are two things to learn from the end of a relationship - where you might have gone wrong and where they went wrong - then decide she wasn't right for you and move on when you are emotionally ready. Honestly, in a few months you'll wonder why you felt so attached to someone who wasn't right for you. 1
Author StarryChain Posted April 4, 2013 Author Posted April 4, 2013 You sounds really bitter. I doubt she faked a relationship with you, what woman would want to do that? You are the one calling her a bitch. That's not a term I'd expect any decent guy to use. It's understandable you are angry and hurt if she ended the relationship, but don't let that turn you into one of those guys who talks offensively about women. Maybe your attitude came through and that's why she ended it, not because she was faking anything. I think you need to be honest with yourself here and ask yourself whether your attitude to women wasn't something to do with this. I am genuinely sorry you were hurt because I do know how that feels. There are two things to learn from the end of a relationship - where you might have gone wrong and where they went wrong - then decide she wasn't right for you and move on when you are emotionally ready. Honestly, in a few months you'll wonder why you felt so attached to someone who wasn't right for you. oh no she did she even admitted it.
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