PhillyDude Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 I told this girl I wanted to see her in the next 2 weeks and her response was........."I'll see what I can do" HUH? It's hard to tell if she was joking because it was over text and I can feel myself losing interest. So I am thinking about putting her in the Fetishzone which is a place for females who I find attractive but not dating material but still can turn me on. And once they land in the Fetishzone then they are there forever because it's no coming back. She did ask me to come meet her at a restaurant a few weeks ago but she was with her girlfriend. So why was the point of that? What were we going to be like 3 girls hanging out? LOL And she texts me every 5 days. Her last text was ...."Did you enjoy your football game" So all of this game playing is annoying me 1
Casablanca Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 Ignore her and go on. Also men can have the friendzones, all my female friends are in there as I have no interest in dating them.
Author PhillyDude Posted January 11, 2013 Author Posted January 11, 2013 Ignore her and go on. Also men can have the friendzones, all my female friends are in there as I have no interest in dating them. The mistake I made was ASKING HER OUT instead of suggesting an activity that we can do together. So I take full responsibility
KraftDinner Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 I don't get why you think she's playing games...sounds like a fairly clear case of her not being interested, or trying to friendzone YOU. Stick her in that fetishzone, what could it hurt? But don't expect more, I'd say. 1
Author PhillyDude Posted January 11, 2013 Author Posted January 11, 2013 I don't get why you think she's playing games...sounds like a fairly clear case of her not being interested, or trying to friendzone YOU. Stick her in that fetishzone, what could it hurt? But don't expect more, I'd say. She is playing games because she sends text out of the blue like Happy New Year after no contact for 5 days Then......"Are you enjoying your football?" after 5 days of no contact
RachR Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 She is playing games because she sends text out of the blue like Happy New Year after no contact for 5 days Then......"Are you enjoying your football?" after 5 days of no contact It's not playing games because she obviously sees you as a friend. asking you to meet up with her and her gf? Hello? Reread what you've told us, but from a friends perspective. Get it? You just see it as game playing because you're into her. Either way, time to move on.
Author PhillyDude Posted January 11, 2013 Author Posted January 11, 2013 It's not playing games because she obviously sees you as a friend. asking you to meet up with her and her gf? Hello? Reread what you've told us, but from a friends perspective. Get it? You just see it as game playing because you're into her. Either way, time to move on. Asking a guy..."Did you enjoy your football today" is not something a woman would ask a platonic friend
KraftDinner Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 Asking a guy..."Did you enjoy your football today" is not something a woman would ask a platonic friend With all due respect, are you being serious? Does that translate to flirting somehow for you? 3
Author PhillyDude Posted January 11, 2013 Author Posted January 11, 2013 With all due respect, are you being serious? Does that translate to flirting somehow for you? What do you call it?
sydneysider1978 Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 ? It just sounds like she's being mildly friendly. That's the sort of text that I'd send to a friend (male or female) if I was having a slow day in the office or passing time on the bus. I have some friends who get bored / annoyed with text chat, I only do it with buddies I know enjoy communicating like that. I guess you've been responsive. You're giving it more importance than it deserves because you fancy her. I think you're in her "friend zone"
KungFuJoe Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 What do you call it? LOL...talk about seeing what you only want to see. 4
KungFuJoe Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 The only women who are "relationship material" are women who are willing to submit and serve their man with total RESPECT and lust. Any woman who is disrespectful, "empowered" or flaky is only fit to be a FWB or one night stand. She has no respect and she feels entitled because she was born female. Never take women like that seriously even for a second. Who hurt you as a child? 1
todreaminblue Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 The only women who are "relationship material" are women who are willing to submit and serve their man with total RESPECT and lust. Any woman who is disrespectful, "empowered" or flaky is only fit to be a FWB or one night stand. She has no respect and she feels entitled because she was born female. Never take women like that seriously even for a second. pfffft plus fifty shads of grey been reading it have we????? you forgot to say master instead of man 1
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