AsianSensation08 Posted January 11, 2013 Share Posted January 11, 2013 So I've been down in the dumps for about a week now, and I have been trying to not get too worried about it and everything, but I can't help but continue to think about it... So me and my girlfriend were dating for about a month and a half and we had lots of chemistry together but all this time we've been dating secretly behind both our parents' backs. The reason why is because her parents are very, very strict about dating and even though she asked them before about dating, they have always said no to her. I took her to prom in December and her mom has seen pictures of us and thinks we're only "friends". Her mom has had suspicions of us being too close together before in the past because I joined her for a walk when she was walking her dog, but her mom didn't know. Her mom eventually found out and was upset with her. Don't ask me why because her mom is very strict and even I don't get it... Anyway, that's a bit of background info but the real tragedy is that her mom found out we were dating a couple days after New Year's and totally flipped out on her. Her mom made her call me on the phone and asked if my mom could speak to her. They both talked about it, and ended up agreeing on "forcing" us to break up... Her mom threatened to transfer her to a different high school if she continues to date me and stuff so my girlfriend and I later talked about it and we decided to keep it safe by just becoming friends. The only problem is I have no idea what to do now from here... Like, we still have feelings for each other but we can't really show each other affection anymore. Also, now that we aren't as close as before, another guy has been talking to her a lot and I'm getting the impression that he is trying to wheel her. I can't really stop him because he's also my friend. I don't know what to do and my feelings and emotions keep getting the best of me. Any help or advice would be appreciated! I can also supply more information if you want! Link to post Share on other sites
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