.. breakup and fixing everything!

[laka23]

Hi everyone, i hope all of you had a great vacation.. i dont speak english very well so i apologize if i make a mistake.. the reason i decided to write in this forum ia because i cant talk about this or i shouldnt talk about thia with my frienda because my ex boyfriend and i share the same friends social network.. well i hope you could read it completely cuz i really need any opinions and would be perfect if i can get any guys point of view.. my exboyfriend and i dated for 14 months and it was perfect i went really close with his familiy and he went close with mine as well, we were bestfriends and lovers at the same time..it was completely perfect and we share and sspent great moments together.. we probably had about 4 fights in our relationship so basically we didnt fight that much.. he didnt gave me a "reason" to breakup he just started to ignore me and broke up with excuses he gave me.. that was in october.. and well i know there is a no contact rule after breakups (i know it now) didnt know it by that time lol so yeah we broke up and next day i gave him some stuff that he had at my house i asked him for reason and he was like 'yeah we can be still friends of you want to' he started partying and i texted him a week after the breakup but obviously he didnt reply.. then 2weeks later i texted him again (lol i know i shouldnt, like i said i didnt know it by that time) and he didnt reply either.. we see each other at college only but he doesnt even say hi.. he delented all the pictures tweets everything and blocked me on instagram .. i think thats stupid cuz if he doesnt feel anything for me anymote we did he block me? I havent contact him since the last text i told you about.. and its been almost 3 months after we broke up.. My ex is trying to forget me by partying every weekend. He always avoids conversation about me when someone brings me up, and says he doesn't wanna talk about that and he hasnt call... i really miss him and i know we can be happy together.. im calm now i recognize some mistakes i can change to make everything work.. but i dont know how i can make him miss me or want me back.. i really love that guy he's my best friend.. i wish i could talk to him but i dont know how.. can someone give me an advice? Thanks for reading thanks so much!

[flitzanu]

Hi everyone, i hope all of you had a great vacation.. i dont speak english very well so i apologize if i make a mistake.. the reason i decided to write in this forum ia because i cant talk about this or i shouldnt talk about thia with my frienda because my ex boyfriend and i share the same friends social network.. well i hope you could read it completely cuz i really need any opinions and would be perfect if i can get any guys point of view.. my exboyfriend and i dated for 14 months and it was perfect i went really close with his familiy and he went close with mine as well, we were bestfriends and lovers at the same time..it was completely perfect and we share and sspent great moments together.. we probably had about 4 fights in our relationship so basically we didnt fight that much.. he didnt gave me a "reason" to breakup he just started to ignore me and broke up with excuses he gave me.. that was in october.. and well i know there is a no contact rule after breakups (i know it now) didnt know it by that time lol so yeah we broke up and next day i gave him some stuff that he had at my house i asked him for reason and he was like 'yeah we can be still friends of you want to' he started partying and i texted him a week after the breakup but obviously he didnt reply.. then 2weeks later i texted him again (lol i know i shouldnt, like i said i didnt know it by that time) and he didnt reply either.. we see each other at college only but he doesnt even say hi.. he delented all the pictures tweets everything and blocked me on instagram .. i think thats stupid cuz if he doesnt feel anything for me anymote we did he block me? I havent contact him since the last text i told you about.. and its been almost 3 months after we broke up.. My ex is trying to forget me by partying every weekend. He always avoids conversation about me when someone brings me up, and says he doesn't wanna talk about that and he hasnt call... i really miss him and i know we can be happy together.. im calm now i recognize some mistakes i can change to make everything work.. but i dont know how i can make him miss me or want me back.. i really love that guy he's my best friend.. i wish i could talk to him but i dont know how.. can someone give me an advice? Thanks for reading thanks so much!

 

he does not want to be with you. there is nothing you did wrong, the fighting does not matter. he avoids you and ignores you because he does not want to talk to you and does not want to be with you.

 

sometimes that just happens, people realize they do not want to be together and want to try being with new people. you will just be wasting your time trying to get him back.