FailedFirstLove Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 I Recieved the weirdest phone call that could have set me back again... His fiend called me at midnight. He says he knows its not his business and stuff but did I promise to return his things and money. I said. Umm yeah And he just tells me something about my ex family asking him to ask and how my ex needs the money to buy tools for apprenceship or whatever. And I just go I can't talk about him. And his reply was oh is it that bad? And I go I just can't talk about him right now.. And he goes oh it must be really bad.. Well I wish you all the best. Don't do anything stupid... I'm still lost in what's going on! His too much of a coward to call me Himself? Or he doesn't want anything to do with me so he gets his friend? I don't know what his intentions are to even get his friend to do this. He dumped me the worst way possible. When I start getting bak on my feet after no contact. He comes and pushes me back down ... At least I wasn't stupid to listen about what's going on in his life I guess cause that would make it worse.
geegirl Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 Return his things and money. Cut the cords. If he dumped you in the worst possible way, don't expect anything less than the same type of behavior. 3
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 He's a coward and you are better off. Don't let this loser bring ya back down sweetie. You are happy, he cannot stand that...cause secretly he is miserable. Don't let him bring ya to his miserable level.
flitzanu Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 yep. just means he didn't want to call you and didn't want to deal with you so he had someone else do it. no secret meaning or ulterior motive, he just doesn't want to deal with you.
Own Worst Enemy Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 and is a cowardly tool. i would send the money back, as you'll have a clean slate then, and just remember forever more that you're no longer with the guy who has to get his mate to do his dirty work.
Author FailedFirstLove Posted January 10, 2013 Author Posted January 10, 2013 A lot of my friends are like don't send **** back. I asked for my things and he replies his going to keep them as memories and cherish them...I'm Angry cause he was here living with us for 6 months. He didnt pay a single cent. Which is where the money came from. He gave it to me to keep it and goes back and firths whether he wants it back.... We paid for his belongings he took back up. Including his phone and all... And I think it's so rude of him to do this. Especially having no guts to do it himself
Treasa Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 Don't give him a damn thing unless he gives you your stuff back, and don't give him anything that isn't rightfully his. 1
Author FailedFirstLove Posted January 11, 2013 Author Posted January 11, 2013 Don't give him a damn thing unless he gives you your stuff back, and don't give him anything that isn't rightfully his. If its put that way then nothing's rightfully his! He had awful family problems so he came here. He only had a couple of clothes. The rest we bought him. I can't BELEIVE that his so ungrateful! and he told me two hours before the he was to board the plane to come back here that he was comfortable there. Doesn't want to come back ever again! I was so torn and humiliated. Everyone asked me oh he was suppose to be back what happened. And he asked me dad to send him his money. Where is the guy I once knew
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