happythroughout Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 There's this guy I know that I swing between liking and not liking. Sometimes I think I'm interested in him. Other times I may even feel disgusted thinking about him. All in all, I think I have some romantic feelings toward this guy despite the disgust feeling from time to time. If that even makes sense. I don't know how he feels about me. We get along and have a lot to talk about but I just am not sure if he's interested in me that way. The strange thing is I need him to like me. I get annoyed if his behavior is interpreted as no interest. So if I don't know if I really like him or don't know if I have strong feelings toward him, why do I need him to like me or get jealous when he talks to other girls? Most of you might say it's a woman's vanity, that we need every man to like us. It's a validation. I don't think this applies to this case. Because there are other men out there and I don't need everyone to like me. Can anyone tell me why I feel this way?
april38 Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 Do you think that maybe you like the challenge? You're not sure he likes you, so you want to make sure he likes you? I've been there, probably multiple times. The last time, and hopefully final time was a few years ago. I needed him to fall in love with me, and he did. I went to great lengths to show him that I'm the ultimate woman. Once we moved in together I realized it was a huge mistake. The entire year we lived together was miserable for him. He could feel me pulling away until I finally left him - broken. I wish I had the courage at the time to recognize the errors in my ways and not have broken his heart.
Author happythroughout Posted January 13, 2013 Author Posted January 13, 2013 Do you think that maybe you like the challenge? You're not sure he likes you, so you want to make sure he likes you? I've been there, probably multiple times. The last time, and hopefully final time was a few years ago. I needed him to fall in love with me, and he did. I went to great lengths to show him that I'm the ultimate woman. Once we moved in together I realized it was a huge mistake. The entire year we lived together was miserable for him. He could feel me pulling away until I finally left him - broken. I wish I had the courage at the time to recognize the errors in my ways and not have broken his heart. I actually dislike a challenge! They bore me and bad boys bore me. I'm not sure it's because of a challenge that I want him to like me. I don't care if other guys don't like me. In fact, I don't even do much to make him like me. I just want him to like me because he wants to like me. What's wrong with me?!
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