TaraMaiden Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 I am ashamed of myself. I'm ashamed of you too. Is that why you posted? Is that what you wanted to hear? Confirmation? Contradiction? Hope this helps.... You need to expand, otherwise, that's the best you're gonna get, really.....
Author Later82012 Posted January 11, 2013 Author Posted January 11, 2013 Thanks for the replies guys, but I am a very boring guy and don't engage in activities that most mortals engage in which in turn lead to seeking counseling. I am ashamed of myself because my carelessness this one time in the nearby past got me dragged into stuff I generally don't find myself in and I cannot extricate myself from my current situation because the other parties involved are not interested in any dialogue. As always there are also a bunch of minions involved and like I said earlier I am helpless and cannot disengage unfortunately. I am just hoping this love story will not be a crime thriller and that no one gets hurt. I will keep you guys updated.
Esoteric Elf Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 I used to feel this way about myself all the time, until I woke up one day and apathy got the better of me, and I have been fine ever since. I wouldn't suggest apathy, though. "Boring" is a weak term that has come to connate negativity. People these days seek entertainment, and in a world where everything revolves around "me", it's the sort of "my way or the highway". I could imagine being bored with a girlfriend and loving the heck out of it, but whatever.
Author Later82012 Posted January 11, 2013 Author Posted January 11, 2013 You can date some men just for sex which might allow you to have more self control with another man you consider relationship potential. Men do this. @FitChick - Forgive me for quoting the above here, but I think it works only in rare cases and creates problems more often than not. I think she was trying the multi-dating formula above on me, which turned me off. I am not sure why she tried this on me when she already knew that I am conservative, immature and aggressive and the other men that were in her life are immature, aggressive, weapon-wielding, possessive men from all walks of life with zero social skills which in turn created a lot of drama in all our lives. I am ashamed of myself because I gave her hope when I myself had lots of doubts about this working for us. She didn't help any by thinking she is not good for me, by being very manipulative, insecure and possessive while she was sleeping with others. With all her issues and with her being very fearful and being distrustful of any new men I am assuming she is a rape victim. I am all for people planning their lives with these girls but these girls have to be smart enough to fix their issues first and not screw up the lives of people that want to be with them. I want to help her but she has to help herself first. The drama she created in my life is unbelievable without even being a part of it. So this is the story of this thread.
Author Later82012 Posted January 11, 2013 Author Posted January 11, 2013 If anything doesn't add up it is because I have left out certain details out of a much more complicated story. I have learnt a lot out of this experience and I am hoping the other people involved learnt a lot too. Actually, I don't care about the other guys involved, but I am hoping she learnt a lot from this experience.
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