Own Worst Enemy Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 (edited) So today is day 4 of NC. I am dreading the weekend, as we've never managed more than 4 days without contact before, and I think it will only hit me that it is truly over this time when he lets it get beyond that point. I know he will, I know he won't contact me, but I'm not sure the bits of me I can't control have accepted it yet. Meanwhile, a couple of days ago, I got a very nice email from his sister-in-law, whom I like a lot, suggesting that she would get some dates together for us all to meet up. It would have been rude not to reply, so I just wrote back, saying that sadly it couldn't happen now, as he and I are not in contact any more, but wishing her all the best and suggesting we could always have a coffee at some point instead. Much as I'd love to see her under any other circumstances, I know it won't happen, as she lives a couple of hundred miles away from me, so it felt safe but polite. I don't feel bad for emailing her, as I think it would have been ruder to ignore her. And he must have been debating our situation with her and his brother for the last 2 years, so it won't have come as a shock to her. But I feel a bit weird and sad about actually putting it out there that "we are not in contact any more". Probably a hint of the tsunami of cr.ap that will hit me over the weekend. Woe is me.... and the rest of us, eh?! Edited January 10, 2013 by Own Worst Enemy
Inviv_girl Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 Stay NC! I know its hard but we all doing that here. Vent out anything you want, write anything you like, we all here to hear you. 1
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