Irina_mole Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 After having a bad experience with my ex-girlfriend cheat me and lie me so much, :lmao::lmao: i decide to put a keylogger bosspy on the phone of my new girlfriend now i i can check every hour by email what she chat, sms or call. do you think its a good idea?????
MrBossMan Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 After having a bad experience with my ex-girlfriend cheat me and lie me so much, :lmao::lmao: i decide to put a keylogger bosspy on the phone of my new girlfriend now i i can check every hour by email what she chat, sms or call. do you think its a good idea????? Don't unless you have a reasonable cause to suspect her. If you do, please, don't get caught. Double and triple check to make sure it's not easily detectable. Make sure her firewall doesn't catch it by adding it to exceptions. Because if she finds out and she's innocent, you've got a huge problem 2
Sanctionne Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 (edited) You're EX GF lied and cheated on you. I can understand that you may have trust issues, but what you are doing is a huge invasion of privacy and you're not even giving this new girl a chance. Not everyone lies and cheats. Trust your new gf. If you don't have Trust, then your relationship is doomed to fail. If I found out that someone did that to me I would be irate and try to get him thrown in jail for it. It's wrong! Edited January 10, 2013 by Sanctionne
GSB81 Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 Do it! Consider it part of the girlfriend interview process.
GSB81 Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 You're EX GF lied and cheated on you. I can understand that you may have trust issues, but what you are doing is a huge invasion of privacy and you're not even giving this new girl a chance. Not everyone lies and cheats. Trust your new gf. If you don't have Trust, then your relationship is doomed to fail. If I found out that someone did that to me I would be irate and try to get him thrown in jail for it. It's wrong! I bet he trusted the ex that cheated on him. Tell us, why should anyone be trusted blindly? Maybe this will actually lead to him being able to trust her. Or maybe he will see why he shouldn't. Either way, he will be able to make a more informed decision.
Sircrax Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 When are you going to stop checking? At which point will you be satisfied? I almost went down this road once. I promised myself to never do it again. There's the very real possibility that you'll never be satisfied. The suspicion will just keep feeding on itself. After all, she may be faithful now... But in a month? In a year? I'll echo BossMan's advice: unless you have good reason to find her activities suspicious - don't. And even then, seriously ask yourself if it's worth the hassle. If not for her, or for the sake of this particular relationship, just don't do this to yourself. 1
Author Irina_mole Posted January 10, 2013 Author Posted January 10, 2013 more than 1 million dollars . if i know that before i will do necessary to don't be cheat like that. i m the kind of people believe on the people i love when i live with. but now i discover how much i was stupid to think like that. i install in her iphone i offer for her birthday, the best keylogger invisible i can found on the market. but sometime i think you are right, i feel not well to know what i do.
Darren Steez Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 Irine troll, if this is true then you have a right.
Sanctionne Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 I bet he trusted the ex that cheated on him. Tell us, why should anyone be trusted blindly? Maybe this will actually lead to him being able to trust her. Or maybe he will see why he shouldn't. Either way, he will be able to make a more informed decision. Personally ppl have to earn my trust. I myself do have trust issues. But tracking someones every text, call etc is an invasion of privacy and I do not agree w/it. If someones trust issues run that deep then they should seek help from a professional and not a website. However, we are all entitled to our own opinion. But I am curious. Would you be ok w/it if your significant other tracked every one of your calls, texts, IM's etc ?
GSB81 Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 Dude... If she has already cheated on you and robbed you, what more do you need to know? 1
Sanctionne Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 more than 1 million dollars . if i know that before i will do necessary to don't be cheat like that. i m the kind of people believe on the people i love when i live with. but now i discover how much i was stupid to think like that. i install in her iphone i offer for her birthday, the best keylogger invisible i can found on the market. but sometime i think you are right, i feel not well to know what i do. Your current gf cheated and robbed your out of 1 million dollars or your ex? If it was your current gf, then why would you buy her a new phone for her bday when she now has a million dollars? and why would you still be w/her? I'm amazed by how much ppl will tolerate in relationships.
GSB81 Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 Personally ppl have to earn my trust. I myself do have trust issues. But tracking someones every text, call etc is an invasion of privacy and I do not agree w/it. If someones trust issues run that deep then they should seek help from a professional and not a website. However, we are all entitled to our own opinion. But I am curious. Would you be ok w/it if your significant other tracked every one of your calls, texts, IM's etc ? Absolutely. In fact I had a girlfriend drop her phone in the pool a few summers ago so we shared mine for about a week until she got a new one. She even took it to work with her twice. What do I care? I had nothing to hide. 1
Sanctionne Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 Absolutely. In fact I had a girlfriend drop her phone in the pool a few summers ago so we shared mine for about a week until she got a new one. She even took it to work with her twice. What do I care? I had nothing to hide. It's not the same. She was not tracking you unknowingly. She was not able to pull a record of every call, text you made. You could've easily deleted text msg history, call history etc... It's not the same and I'm not saying that you are not to be trusted.... Again, everyone is entitled to their own opinion >.< And if the current gf is who robbed him of a significant amount of money why waste any more time on this person? I wouldn't want to know what they're doing, much less spend more money on her buying her phones and tracking devices. Ha! 1
GSB81 Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 It's not the same. She was not tracking you unknowingly. She was not able to pull a record of every call, text you made. You could've easily deleted text msg history, call history etc... It's not the same and I'm not saying that you are not to be trusted.... Again, everyone is entitled to their own opinion >.< And if the current gf is who robbed him of a significant amount of money why waste any more time on this person? I wouldn't want to know what they're doing, much less spend more money on her buying her phones and tracking devices. Ha! Could have, didn't. Also keep in mind that if I had had anything going on the side with another girl, she could have texted or called at any time. If I'd been worried about that, I wouldn't have handed over the phone in the first place. I see your point, I'm just of the "If you have nothing to hide, what's the issue" mentality. As for the OP, if I were him, I'd put a keylogger on her phone in hopes of finding out where she hid the loot! 1
Sircrax Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 What? Why are you guys assuming it's the same girl? Admittedly it is hard to understand what's going on from the OP's cryptic posts, but I understood that his *previous* girl betrayed him & took his money. He did type "new girlfriend" after all.
GSB81 Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 What? Why are you guys assuming it's the same girl? Admittedly it is hard to understand what's going on from the OP's cryptic posts, but I understood that his *previous* girl betrayed him & took his money. It's confusing, but it looks like he's telling us why he suspects the new girl of something in his second post. Hell, Idk. It's almost 4 a.m. And I've taken enough cold meds to poop methamphetamine. 1
Author Irina_mole Posted January 10, 2013 Author Posted January 10, 2013 its my ex gf robbed me 1 millions usd. and i offer for her birthday (new girl friend) an iPhone and i install a keylogger inside. now its like a drugs. i need to read all what she wrote with her iPhone. every hour i receive a report by email. sometime when she chatting with her friends or family i can understand my new gf better. i think my new gf is sincere. i want one day to take out this key logger but i think i will be afraid later to don't know whats happened in her heard.
Sanctionne Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 What? Why are you guys assuming it's the same girl? Admittedly it is hard to understand what's going on from the OP's cryptic posts, but I understood that his *previous* girl betrayed him & took his money. He did type "new girlfriend" after all. Either way. It's just really sad that someone would have to go to these lengths to avoid being lied to or cheated. All it takes is one bad experience to ruin it for his future gfs. Doesn't really seem fair. Personally, i think that type of tracking could drive a person insane. And where is the fun and excitement of getting to know a person? Where is the mystery? He would know things that he may not want to know. Like that she is sitting on the crapper because the romantic dinner he made her upset her stomach, but she didn't want to make him feel bad. 1
Sanctionne Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 its my ex gf robbed me 1 millions usd. and i offer for her birthday (new girl friend) an iPhone and i install a keylogger inside. now its like a drugs. i need to read all what she wrote with her iPhone. every hour i receive a report by email. sometime when she chatting with her friends or family i can understand my new gf better. i think my new gf is sincere. i want one day to take out this key logger but i think i will be afraid later to don't know whats happened in her heard. As you said, it is like a drug. And as Mr. Garason from South Park would say ' drugs are bad ' and as far as you being afraid about not knowing what's going in her head, that ok. Just work on building a loving and trusting relationships so that she can be open enough with you to tell her what's on her mind. Don't wait until It's too late. if she finds out what you have done then she will surly leave you. Stop making her pay for your exes mistakes.
GSB81 Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 Either way. It's just really sad that someone would have to go to these lengths to avoid being lied to or cheated. All it takes is one bad experience to ruin it for his future gfs. Doesn't really seem fair. Personally, i think that type of tracking could drive a person insane. And where is the fun and excitement of getting to know a person? Where is the mystery? He would know things that he may not want to know. Like that she is sitting on the crapper because the romantic dinner he made her upset her stomach, but she didn't want to make him feel bad. Is it weird that I think it'd be funny to know when my girl is on the crapper? Since so many girls claim they don't poop or fart, that would be a good time to call her up just to say I love you. "You sound weird, you ok? You sound a little stressed. It sounds like you're in a bathroom. Did I just hear a splash? Hello?"
Sanctionne Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 Is it weird that I think it'd be funny to know when my girl is on the crapper? Since so many girls claim they don't poop or fart, that would be a good time to call her up just to say I love you. "You sound weird, you ok? You sound a little stressed. It sounds like you're in a bathroom. Did I just hear a splash? Hello?" Bahahaha!!! Any girl that says she doesn't poop or fart is full of crap. and gas! And you do seem a bit strange. However, I am sure that I'm a lot stranger than most. So you're in good company.
road Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 its my ex gf robbed me 1 millions usd. and i offer for her birthday (new girl friend) an iPhone and i install a keylogger inside. now its like a drugs. i need to read all what she wrote with her iPhone. every hour i receive a report by email. sometime when she chatting with her friends or family i can understand my new gf better. i think my new gf is sincere. i want one day to take out this key logger but i think i will be afraid later to don't know whats happened in her heard. Something does not add up smart enough to make a million dollars yet writes on a 1st grade level. Wrong to snoop when this new GF is not doing anything suspicious. 1
Sircrax Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 Maybe he inherited the money? Or maybe we're talking Zimbabwe dollars. I like you, road. You're much more reasonable than I thought.
Author Irina_mole Posted January 10, 2013 Author Posted January 10, 2013 Maybe he inherited the money? Or maybe we're talking Zimbabwe dollars. I like you, road. You're much more reasonable than I thought. i will dont be sad if its Zimbabwe dollars :laugh: anyway its the past. and i must work again to earn money to live. what is done is done. i only ask some advise here . is it the right way what i do to put a keylogger in her iPhone. i feel more peaceful when i can locate her on a google map every where she go when i work.
Sircrax Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 (edited) You seem like an alright guy. You obviously have nagging second thoughts about spying on your gf. In the back of your mind, you realise you're being unfair, and a little creepy. So... On the one side, you have jealousy and pain from your previous experience. On the other, you know full well that what you're doing is feeding your paranoia and opening up old wounds with a misplaced attempt at self-protection. You're clinging to the illusion of control. You're not moving on. You're sabotaging yourself. "What's done is done"? Yeah. Unfortunately. Remove the keylogger, break her phone, or continue this pointless charade. Or just dump her and pursue casual sex until you deal with your issues. It's up to you. Edited January 10, 2013 by Sircrax
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