Sanctionne Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 I'm so full of hurt and anger. How does a person go from being head over heels crazy in love with you to breaking things off and never speaking to you again? It's been 3.5 months now since the split. He has not attempted to make contact with me. I understand that it's over, but I've never had this happen to me w/breakups in the past. Surly it has something to do with the married whore that he met 2 weeks after our split. A. She doesn't even live in the same State. B. She is Married! C. I know about her through a couple of very good friends of mine that engage in group sex w/her. I'm completely repulsed! I may not be the best thing out there, but surly I'm much better than some married whore that clearly cheats on her spouse. In addition, she is not from this country and her visa will be expiring in the Summer. WTF! I can't even begin to explain how this is effecting me. I feel like a piece of shhhh! He said I was the girl of his dreams. Not only did he tell me, but he told his family and friends as well. I suppose he was looking for a different type of dream. Like a nasty wet one. I just want to feel better and move on with my life. I am so emotionally exhausted. This guy does NOT deserve for me to shed 1 more tear for him or even think of him. But it's been 3.5 months. I'm wondering if something is mentally wrong w/me if I can't get over someone that clearly never cared for me.
LostOne1 Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 You know I still wonder too. How did my ex go crazy for me to just not even giving a **** about me. How did we go from the best lovers and best friends to strangers. As for 3.5 months that's not enough. My last BU took me over a year to heal. But I got myself busy with school then for 8 months in an intense program. Then took a month off and then for another 2 months went travelling with family and then took my last month off. Then I started school after the new year and 2-3 months later started dating again looking for someone and met my current ex. So it took me awhile, but honestly it was REALLY tough. Travelling to a 3rd world country REALLY helped too. I mean you see so much love and just a new atmosphere and environment. Then getting back I felt stronger than ever and recharged. Its gonna feel this way for awhile for you.. the pain and feeling exhasuted over why you haven;t been able to let him go. Some days will be good and some days will be bad. It is how it is... sadly. It hurts more because some questions never get answered. Such as we both have said, how can they be all over us and then just totally away from us. From what I hear from dumpers it's because they just LOST the feeling. I guess the question is then how did they lose feelings just like that... and I guess something must have bugged them enough to let us go. No one lets go unless they have a reason and my ex said there were many. But I feel like she just said it as an excuse to justify herself from BU with me and possibly going out with someone else.
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