the_entertainer1 Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 I have a third date tonight with this guy and he's asked me to go back to his place afterwards to "watch a DVD". We haven't kissed yet, so I think he wants to do that (and probably more, I guess). I kind of want to go, but I am completely inexperienced (never had 3 dates with the one guy, or even kissed a guy before), so I am completely freaking out. He knows I haven't had a boyfriend before, and kept saying that he didn't want me to be uncomfortable with anything. I'm taking my own car, which is a bit of a 'safety net'. Still, I'm nervous. It's not that I feel unsafe with him ... I think it's just due to inexperience. What can I do to calm my nerves?
FitChick Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 What time is it in your time zone? It's booty call time in mine. I hope you are in Hawaii.
TheZebra Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 No kiddin', in 2 hours I hope to be in deep sleep
todreaminblue Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 I have a third date tonight with this guy and he's asked me to go back to his place afterwards to "watch a DVD". We haven't kissed yet, so I think he wants to do that (and probably more, I guess). I kind of want to go, but I am completely inexperienced (never had 3 dates with the one guy, or even kissed a guy before), so I am completely freaking out. He knows I haven't had a boyfriend before, and kept saying that he didn't want me to be uncomfortable with anything. I'm taking my own car, which is a bit of a 'safety net'. Still, I'm nervous. It's not that I feel unsafe with him ... I think it's just due to inexperience. What can I do to calm my nerves? Just know you dont have to do anything you dont want to and you have the right to say enough or no, you can always leave if you dont feel comfortable and you can and do have the right to have fun......if the guy respects your boundaries that will relax you....if you relax an djust let it be, enjoy yourself dont necessarily consider anything bad is going to happen or that you are going to feel awkward,its a date and you have also the right to be nervous ...everybody suffers from them at one point or another...just dont let them take over......and if they do just excuse yoruself to the bathroom and take some deep breaths ....until you feel relaxed again............deb 1
Author the_entertainer1 Posted January 10, 2013 Author Posted January 10, 2013 What time is it in your time zone? It's booty call time in mine. I hope you are in Hawaii. Haha. Australia, actually. It's mid-afternoon on Thursday at the moment. 1
coffeebean201 Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 If you aren't enjoying it .... just leave. It is that simple. And always keep the door open to future dates with him. Sometimes it takes a guy a while to figure out what we like.
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