newmoon Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 so, my bf broke up with me on new years eve - said he wanted a 'break' so i just assumed = breakup and have started to move forward with no contact and posting my profile with an online dating site. it also happened that i had a solo vacation booked at the time he dumped me, and i have to stay it has been awesome being away from him, the environment and the daily activities that would keep my mind on him. i HIGHLY recommend that anyone suffering through a break-up find some way to vacation, go away for a weekend, etc. - some getaway from the everyday environment to help you 'reset' your system and move on from your person. sure, i have thoughts about him, but they are really just intrusive at this point - my vacation has helped me have fun again and remember that single = not so bad! it has helped tremendously. i go back home tomorrow (after 10 days away) and i feel so strong already. good luck to everyone and do something for yourself, like vacation :-) 4
Just smile Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 Couldn't agree. More with this post. I should of booked a trip weeks ago,but Super Bowl weekend im outta here with the girls for a little r n r in Atlantic city. Just what the dr ordered,
Chi townD Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 Yep! I am a big advocate of traveling. There's a big world out there for everyone to explore and in the grand scheme of things, you realize how small your problems are when you atart to take care of yourself and remove yourself from the "norm" and finding a place to relax and decompress. It really does wonders.
Panda87 Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 Hi newmoon, do you still work together with your ex? I think we share almost same stories, i also break up with my ex on christmas. Im on short vacation now, but my mind still cant stop thinking about her. Esp when i know she is dating someone else now but i know i need to stay focus on myself. 1
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