lovehurtz23 Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 im 20 years old Ive dated alot of races and gender but now im in a commited relationship with a black man and all i think about is having sex with a white man even a relationship with one,i love my bf but the more me and my bf argue the more i think about my ex and masterbate to interracial porn , i want more . but i dont want to just leave my boyfriend because of my fantasie, it could be a phase? by the way im horny and pregnant . i think its sickning sometimes . what do u guys think
Author lovehurtz23 Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 i gotten 111 views i need advice
NoMagicBullet Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 (edited) It's difficult to say, but if your pregant, I'd say that's a big source of stress and hormone fluctuations contributing to things. You say you and your bf have been arguing more -- about the pregnancy or other issues? The topics of the arguments are sources of stress, and the arguments themselves are stressful. My guess is that your thoughts/fantasies are more of an escape from all this stress. I think you and your bf need to find a way to resolve whatever issues you are having and try to reduce stress levels for both of you. A new baby is going to be a major life change; you don't need to make things harder on yourselves. In other words, yeah, it's kind of a phase, but you'll need to work through it. Edited January 10, 2013 by NoMagicBullet addition
MrBossMan Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 Don't act on your fantasies. They'll pass. If you act, you'll ruin your life with your bf for good. Don't even flirt. Please, for your own good, for your child, and your bf, do not.
road Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 Fantasies are never are good as reality. Having an affair is wrong so there is no way to justify you cheating. You wanting something different is what everyone feels from time to time. Time for you to grow up.
mitchell Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 Any idea who is the father of your child? Your best bet is to work on a relationship with that person and keep your fantasies to yourself. Perhaps your hormones are getting the best of you. Many women get quite horny during pregnancy. Is your BF taking care of you sexually?
Ribbons Undone Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 i think its sickning sometimes it is. if ur man loves u, he won't be happy but hurt by all this. its not pregnancy hormones, it's u! if u really do love him u need to change ur ways. ur bringing a child into this crazy world. grow up, think straight and focus on ur babys life and future and clear ur mind from wanting to have sex with others and cheating. -ribbons undone
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