Do you need tons of friends and a massive social circle to be successful at dating?

[JuneJulySeptember]

Don't you guys actually meet mixed social circles?

 

I guess thats a job for advancing your social skills in general.

 

Some of them are probably young. It happens with time.

 

In HS and college for me, it was a total sausage fest.

 

Then after that it was more mixed.

 

These days I almost yearn for a sausage fest it's so rare that guys can get away from their wives and kids at the same time.

[ScreamingTrees]

Don't you guys actually meet mixed social circles?

 

I guess thats a job for advancing your social skills in general.

 

What do you mean, like, mixed gender-wise? Nope, not at the moment. Wouldn't really know where to go. I've looked up "meet up" groups but I didn't really find any that looked all that promising. I'll have to look again eventually.

[Necris]

I've had plenty of friends.. Whenever we'd hang out? Total sausage fest. Like, 12 guys altogether drinking some beers and hanging out, playing video games and crap.. Never any girls. They all had their own things going on independent of the group.. As in, a girl that they were flirting with online or a girlfriend or whatever..

 

I don't expect to meet girls just because I've made some guy friends at a cashier job or from school or whatever..

 

I think in my case, I might as well cold approach, because at this rate I'll never meet any nice, attractive girls through any friends of mine..

 

Same here, my friends and associates are mostly all guys, and the possibility of me meeting girls through them is pretty low, now I do know a few girls but they are taken and probably not interested.