Is this just a friends thing?

[teaforone]

There's a guy i've known since 1st grade (m/26 and i'm f/25), recently we started talking more. The past 2 nights we've texted for 2-2.5 hours each! I personally don't even text that long with my friends, at the most 30 minutes.

 

At the end of one of our conversations he told me to feel free to talk to him anytime. I was actually a little worried i might annoy him with my texts but he told me not to worry, i couldn't annoy him.

 

I'm a little confused though, is this just a friends thing? Is he just being nice? Because he's not texted me since the first time we talked even though i told him he could text me too whenever.

 

What's the right level of talking time to not become an annoyance?

[Toddbt12y1]

If he told you to talk to him as much as you liked talk to him. It might become something. .never know till you try.

[carhill]

What's the right level of talking time to not become an annoyance?

 

You've asked him and received his answer, hence you can decide what is, within that answer, healthy for yourself, and then act on that.

 

What does it mean? It means you're texting for 2-2.5 hours.

 

If he wanted to press flesh on a date or see a movie with you as a friend, he has the ability to broach those subjects.

 

What does it mean to you? What do you want?

[teaforone]

You've asked him and received his answer, hence you can decide what is, within that answer, healthy for yourself, and then act on that.

 

What does it mean to you? What do you want?

 

I do like him, but i don't feel like we know each other well enough. If it ever came up yeah, i'd go on a date with him.

 

Thanks!

[teaforone]

If he told you to talk to him as much as you liked talk to him. It might become something. .never know till you try.

 

Your right! My friend told me something similar, i suppose i just wanted a second opinion.