JackO4 Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 I was handling my ex well. She'd call, send texts, send pictures. I'd brush it off and wouldn't pursue anything. She'd invite me over, hug and kiss me and cry. I'd tell her I'd always be there for her but that I would never chase her again. She'd ask if we should get back together. I'd laugh and tell her she shouldn't play with people's emotions. Finally, the one time I give her feelings and emotions she shuts me down. Tells me she knew I couldn't handle contact, that I'm crazy, that I need to move on. Why can't I hate this person who has treated me so ****ty?
Coping Vortex Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 I was handling my ex well. She'd call, send texts, send pictures. I'd brush it off and wouldn't pursue anything. She'd invite me over, hug and kiss me and cry. I'd tell her I'd always be there for her but that I would never chase her again. She'd ask if we should get back together. I'd laugh and tell her she shouldn't play with people's emotions. Finally, the one time I give her feelings and emotions she shuts me down. Tells me she knew I couldn't handle contact, that I'm crazy, that I need to move on. Why can't I hate this person who has treated me so ****ty? Wow that was cold of her. My ex did a similar thing. We met up after weeks apart we talked for hours and we agreed to start dating and putting things back on track. The next day she said doesn't want a relationship with me. She swore we would work on it the day before. The next day gone. So cruel. You have to move on.
Chi townD Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Because she's Bat Sh*t crazy. You need to go back to NC and ignore any and all breadcrumbs. Time to move on, dude. 2
fixing Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Thats tough mate. You cant hate her, because you still love her obv. So go NC now son. You'll be ok.
Author JackO4 Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 Feels like we just broke up all over again. I really thought it was different this time...she was so convincing...she should be an actress.
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