stone2 Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 my ex recently dumped me because she is overwhemly stressed due to not having money " paying rent, ran out of unemployment. and also shes lost. she told me that when she does want a bf hes going to be older because she wants a family and stuff in which she thought i wasnt going to be around for that in which i explained and she accepted it but still left we were toether for 2 months and everything was good. constantly buying me stuff even when i rejected it forcibly .and she would call and text everyday telling me she loves me and cares. and then she started acting distant. the last time she broke up with me i asked will she come back she said she doesnt know and then i asked will we talk about this or not and she answered yes she still wants to talk and see me but she doesnt want a relationship. i did not hear from her since and its been 4 days and im on break for college and im 20 and shes 25 with a 4 year old which i didnt mind. what should i do and why did she just leave like that with no real explination? i want to stay but i know ill move on.. it sucks
Author stone2 Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 everyone knows we were together which really wouldnt matter anyway and she was in school too.. we had the same class but she dropped out because her grades. but she knows i just wanted her but girls want me but i dont care. she took me back saying she wants to see where it goes. everything she went through i understood and tried to support her. i thought it was lack of interest
flitzanu Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 my ex recently dumped me because she is overwhemly stressed due to not having money " paying rent, ran out of unemployment. and also shes lost. she told me that when she does want a bf hes going to be older because she wants a family and stuff in which she thought i wasnt going to be around for that in which i explained and she accepted it but still left we were toether for 2 months and everything was good. constantly buying me stuff even when i rejected it forcibly .and she would call and text everyday telling me she loves me and cares. and then she started acting distant. the last time she broke up with me i asked will she come back she said she doesnt know and then i asked will we talk about this or not and she answered yes she still wants to talk and see me but she doesnt want a relationship. i did not hear from her since and its been 4 days and im on break for college and im 20 and shes 25 with a 4 year old which i didnt mind. what should i do and why did she just leave like that with no real explination? i want to stay but i know ill move on.. it sucks "i don't want a relationship" = "i don't want to be with you" no, you shouldn't wait because she dumped you.
FailedFirstLove Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 Don't wait move on. seems like she just wanted to try something new and dated a young guy. Now she's realized younger guys can't give we what she needs in life right now. If she doesn't have a child ten maybe. And your young! U will want to live life and not be a step dad yet
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