Amelie1980 Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 You may want to think about doing it. I was ridiculous over my.bf and lost a fair amount of self respect. I made excused for his issues etc. After getting the final dear Jane email I sent an email back to him agreeing, telling I didn't love him either and that he wasn't the man I thought he was, I've decided to move on and have been looking to start dating. I got an email back from him tearing apart my inadequacies in the relationship & effectively saying fix those or you won't find anyone else. Well it has shocked me to the core & made me cry and feel sick. But I have realised I have dodged a bullet with my ex and I wouldn't have him back in a gift. he had plenty of inadequacies which I wsss never cruel enough go raise. Extreme but it is certainly advanced me along on the recovery front. Something to consider.
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 There are positives. Not many or a lot. Now, for those(such as yourself), who needs that final closure to have the strength to move on, it is positive. Actually, many people want closure. Just hard to get, sometimes causes more issues. I am glad you now have the resolve from this. Indeed a positive... I hope you continue to grow.
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