carlsv99 Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Ok, so me and my ex girlfriend officially broke up like 2 weeks ago. She is the one who broke up with me. She was asking for excuses since back in October, asking me that she needed a break out of nowhere. All of a sudden I caught her dating another guy this December when she opened a fake FB profile and invited only 3 friends to that profile and posted pics of her and the guy there, but I still caught her, and it got me mad, and she showed no remorse at all. Even though I have not confirmed or her that its her new boyfriend, because she wont answer any direct questions, only telling me to "move on" and she "doesnt love me anymore", I have assumed that's her new date or partner. She changed her phone number and e-mail contacts....and we did not end in a good way to put it that way, many arguments, and bad ending in bad terms, specially when I found out about the guy. She never apologized or anything. So now, I maintain a blog, and I put stuff there on a daily basis, and I also kept one for her and for me, for our "love story", and in my own blog I have put stuff that I am hurt for what she has done, etc..and now a days just putting happy stuff, but I notice that she comes to my blog and our old blog like 8 times per day or more. The IP tracker tells me that she comes and visit so often...When I dont update she goes look for me everywhere even to dating sites and she opens fake profiles to stalk me there (Not like im ready for dating, but my profile is there), or visit my blog more often waiting for updates if there has not been during the day....Plus she has deactivated and activated her FB account MANY times during this past 2 weeks....I know I should not be watching her FB account, because she is not even my friend there anymore, but im curious whats up with her. What does this mean? why she checks on me so often? I love her, but I am trying to move on because of what she did hurt me a lot, and thats not helping, and she is not even talking, only stalking.....
flitzanu Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Ok, so me and my ex girlfriend officially broke up like 2 weeks ago. She is the one who broke up with me. She was asking for excuses since back in October, asking me that she needed a break out of nowhere. All of a sudden I caught her dating another guy this December when she opened a fake FB profile and invited only 3 friends to that profile and posted pics of her and the guy there, but I still caught her, and it got me mad, and she showed no remorse at all. Even though I have not confirmed or her that its her new boyfriend, because she wont answer any direct questions, only telling me to "move on" and she "doesnt love me anymore", I have assumed that's her new date or partner. She changed her phone number and e-mail contacts....and we did not end in a good way to put it that way, many arguments, and bad ending in bad terms, specially when I found out about the guy. She never apologized or anything. So now, I maintain a blog, and I put stuff there on a daily basis, and I also kept one for her and for me, for our "love story", and in my own blog I have put stuff that I am hurt for what she has done, etc..and now a days just putting happy stuff, but I notice that she comes to my blog and our old blog like 8 times per day or more. The IP tracker tells me that she comes and visit so often...When I dont update she goes look for me everywhere even to dating sites and she opens fake profiles to stalk me there (Not like im ready for dating, but my profile is there), or visit my blog more often waiting for updates if there has not been during the day....Plus she has deactivated and activated her FB account MANY times during this past 2 weeks....I know I should not be watching her FB account, because she is not even my friend there anymore, but im curious whats up with her. What does this mean? why she checks on me so often? I love her, but I am trying to move on because of what she did hurt me a lot, and thats not helping, and she is not even talking, only stalking..... it means she's bored. she's banging a new guy, why are you worrying about her IP showing up as looking at your blog? it doesn't mean anything at all, and focusing and stalking is not going to give you any information. 1
Author carlsv99 Posted January 10, 2013 Author Posted January 10, 2013 Thanks guys. I know what you guys mean. She kept asking for a break, and said that if I could not wait for 6 months for her then I was not going to be worth for her.....Then somedays she would ask me to come to her place and fix things (nonsense excuse about the break)....and I didnt come, then next day she said since you didnt come then break keeps going for 6 months, I kept asking her back and she said I was creepy to not leave her alone during the break....It was hard, and now she checking on my blog everyday it sucks....But i will follow your advice and delete my fb or just block her... Oh also she had me block from her facebook, but suddenly last week she unblocked me too....
Author carlsv99 Posted January 11, 2013 Author Posted January 11, 2013 it sounds like she is manipulative and crazy. i'd have nothing to do with her from now on. Same thing family and friends have been telling me even when we were in the relationship. Thanks for assuring this again...Makes me feel better and not guilty that she went away now....
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