Treasa Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 I think the problem here is that most of the guys who are posting about the alpha male crap and how women are only into looks are really pretty young, as in lower 20s or younger. At that age, I can see some girls being a lot more shallow. Just like there are plenty of women who don't give a flying **** about Prada bags (my last purse? $23 on Amazon), there are a lot of women who don't care about the traditional good-looking guy. I am attracted to guys who are obviously older, wiser, more mature, and who laugh these kinds of posts off. They know better. They're more laid back and less desperate to be an "alpha male." Those are the kinds I go for. Oh, and guys who want to go at it constantly. If a guy doesn't have a high libido, he isn't going to make it. And when it comes to sex, the positions I prefer usually don't even have me facing the dude.
serial muse Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 I didn't doubt your entire post, OP, until this part: You're all gonna say, "But guys lust after the very top, hot women just the same." I don't really think that's true. Oh, bah. This is just disingenuous. You do too know it's true, it just isn't the argument you wanted to make. Search your heart, and you know it's true. That's really all there is to it. People talk a good game, men and women, about how they'd "do" this guy or that girl or *fans self* he's smoking or *makes wolf call* she's hott but seriously that doesn't actually translate very precisely into who people tend to date. So come on, now. You've really never been in a locker room with other dudes and had them say the same sort of stuff about hot girls? Sorry, don't buy that at all, and the disingenuousness undermines your argument, IMO.
sillyanswer Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 I don't know if you've ever heard of Dalrock or Athol Kay' date=' but they are the bloggers that give solid advice regarding relationship game. Consult them and read through their archives. They know what they're talking about.[/quote'] No, I don't think I've heard of them. I'll take a look. Thanks.
somedude81 Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 I think the problem here is that most of the guys who are posting about the alpha male crap and how women are only into looks are really pretty young, as in lower 20s or younger. At that age, I can see some girls being a lot more shallow. Just like there are plenty of women who don't give a flying **** about Prada bags (my last purse? $23 on Amazon), there are a lot of women who don't care about the traditional good-looking guy. I am attracted to guys who are obviously older, wiser, more mature, and who laugh these kinds of posts off. They know better. They're more laid back and less desperate to be an "alpha male." Those are the kinds I go for. Oh, and guys who want to go at it constantly. If a guy doesn't have a high libido, he isn't going to make it. And when it comes to sex, the positions I prefer usually don't even have me facing the dude. Well I'm 31, though I don't know how old the other guys are in this thread, except for Necro who is 18. I do know that there are quite a few guys over 25 who have done horribly with women so the alpha male crap is true for them. The guys who "laugh these kinds of posts off," are the guys who don't fail with women. That's simply because they don't live in the same world as the guys who fail do.
Author JuneJulySeptember Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 Just like there are plenty of women who don't give a flying **** about Prada bags (my last purse? $23 on Amazon), there are a lot of women who don't care about the traditional good-looking guy. Some. Not a lot. Maybe 7%. Definitely less than 10. And yes, I'm over 30 too.
Treasa Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Then I would say that those men who are older are really going to the wrong places to meet women, or are looking for the wrong kind of woman. There's nothing wrong with how I look, I have a great rack, I'm athletic, and I don't give a crap about looks. I like intelligence, a sense of humor, someone who's financially independent (read: not living with mom), someone who is adventurous sexually, and someone who's honest. Ok, if he plays video games that's an added bonus. That's as picky as I get. I don't care about height. I don't care about weight. I don't care if he has glasses. I don't care if he's balding. I don't care what race he is. As long as he's between 28 and 49, he's fine.
Mme. Chaucer Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Even you sages (who don't know any women in real life, evidently, much less had any experience with relationships) must be able to see, if you plumb the depths of your cognizant abilities, that the reason many, many relationships don't work out is NOT "hypergamy." There are thousands of reasons. Many of them originating from the man and NOT the woman. Please. Renew my faith in the basic intelligence of humankind and tell me you can see the truth in this. 2
somedude81 Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Then I would say that those men who are older are really going to the wrong places to meet women, or are looking for the wrong kind of woman. There's nothing wrong with how I look, I have a great rack, I'm athletic, and I don't give a crap about looks. I like intelligence, a sense of humor, someone who's financially independent (read: not living with mom), someone who is adventurous sexually, and someone who's honest. Ok, if he plays video games that's an added bonus. That's as picky as I get. I don't care about height. I don't care about weight. I don't care if he has glasses. I don't care if he's balding. I don't care what race he is. As long as he's between 28 and 49, he's fine. You're one of the very rare cool girls. I'm also assuming that you're almost always in a relationship. So it doesn't really help that one out of 10 girls doesn't care about those things if she's already taken. When the majority of girls don't care, that's when things start happening. Until then, the guys who suck with girls have to wait their turn for women like you. 1
Author JuneJulySeptember Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 There's nothing wrong with how I look, I have a great rack, I'm athletic, and I don't give a crap about looks. I like intelligence, a sense of humor, someone who's financially independent (read: not living with mom), someone who is adventurous sexually, and someone who's honest. Ok, if he plays video games that's an added bonus. That's as picky as I get. I don't care about height. I don't care about weight. I don't care if he has glasses. I don't care if he's balding. I don't care what race he is. As long as he's between 28 and 49, he's fine. Sold me. Pick you up at 7. Do you like Ethiopian food? Assuming I believe you, you still represent the far, far minority.
Treasa Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 You're one of the very rare cool girls. I'm also assuming that you're almost always in a relationship. So it doesn't really help that one out of 10 girls doesn't care about those things if she's already taken. When the majority of girls don't care, that's when things start happening. Until then, the guys who suck with girls have to wait their turn for women like you. No, I'm currently between relationships. And I'm fine with that. I'm enjoying my freedom right now. Honestly, know what I want right now? A phone sex relationship. That's all I want to commit to at the moment.
Treasa Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Sold me. Pick you up at 7. Do you like Ethiopian food? Assuming I believe you, you still represent the far, far minority. Actually I do, provided it's vegetarian. I guess I don't see it as the far minority, because almost all of my friends are like me. I hang out with gamer girls. Added bonus? Most of us are bisexual.
Author JuneJulySeptember Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 Actually I do, provided it's vegetarian. I guess I don't see it as the far minority, because almost all of my friends are like me. I hang out with gamer girls. Added bonus? Most of us are bisexual. How tall are you?
ThaWholigan Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Sold me. Pick you up at 7. Do you like Ethiopian food? Assuming I believe you, you still represent the far, far minority. The more you believe that, the more true it will be. 1
Author JuneJulySeptember Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 The more you believe that, the more true it will be. Dude, I believe what I see. Not what I conjure up in my own mind. When the world convinces me that I'm wrong, I'll start posting the contrary. Keep in mind, I've had girlfriends, but even that hasn't changed my perspective of the overall way most women think. 5'2" (if I inhale), why? I was just curious because you said you don't care about height. I would go out with you. But I'm not stupid enough to think you'd accept after all the f@cked up **** I've posted here. Lol.
PJKino Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 I dont know if it alpha beta or just the fact that women love good looking men but ime my good looking[i guess u can definitely say "alpha"] friend has monopolized most women aorund and even the married women are smitten with him
Author JuneJulySeptember Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 In keeping on topic of my original post, "I'd go out with Treasa!" See ladies, that wasn't so hard.
Treasa Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 In keeping on topic of my original post, "I'd go out with Treasa!" See ladies, that wasn't so hard. Hope you can keep up in bed. That's all I'm sayin'. 1
edgygirl Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 The vast majority of my gf are like Treasa. I'm probably the pickiest one amongst them because I prefer tall guys. Most of these girls are educated, cute, intelligent and they all state the same thing. That's why it bugs me when I read about all the loners here complaining they can't get a date and that only top guys get all the women. Either these loners are too picky, don't know how to be charming or are looking for the wrong girls. 1
Treasa Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 The vast majority of my gf are like Treasa. I'm probably the pickiest one amongst them because I prefer tall guys. Most of these girls are educated, cute, intelligent and they all state the same thing. That's why it bugs me when I read about all the loners here complaining they can't get a date and that only top guys get all the women. Either these loners are too picky, don't know how to be charming or are looking for the wrong girls. But do they train with weapons such as iaito, bokken, rokushakubo, hanbo, jutte, etc.? Mwahahaha. Er, ok, I can see how, "At last count I have 27+ weapons at home," could put a guy off... 1
ascendotum Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 But do they train with weapons such as iaito, bokken, rokushakubo, hanbo, jutte, etc.? Mwahahaha. Er, ok, I can see how, "At last count I have 27+ weapons at home," could put a guy off... See the guys were right, you are not the typical single girl that guys come across.
Treasa Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 See the guys were right, you are not the typical single girl that guys come across. Ok, but except for the weapon fetish, addiction to video games, and martial arts training, I'm fairly normal.
somedude81 Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 No, I'm currently between relationships. And I'm fine with that. I'm enjoying my freedom right now. Honestly, know what I want right now? A phone sex relationship. That's all I want to commit to at the moment. That's what I was thinking. You're either always in a relationship or choosing to be single. I'm sure you know of a decent number of guys that would like to date you right now. All you have to do is call their number. Actually I do, provided it's vegetarian. I guess I don't see it as the far minority, because almost all of my friends are like me. I hang out with gamer girls. Added bonus? Most of us are bisexual. Any of them single? I don't know. For some reason I'm just having extreme difficulty meeting open minded girls that are single and looking to date. By open minded I mean they would actually date a guy like me. I while ago I knew a gamer girl that liked to do martial arts but no matter what I did I couldn't get her to date me.
Treasa Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 That's what I was thinking. You're either always in a relationship or choosing to be single. I'm sure you know of a decent number of guys that would like to date you right now. All you have to do is call their number. Any of them single? I don't know. For some reason I'm just having extreme difficulty meeting open minded girls that are single and looking to date. By open minded I mean they would actually date a guy like me. I while ago I knew a gamer girl that liked to do martial arts but no matter what I did I couldn't get her to date me. Yes, but a couple of them are married, one is like a brother to me, one doesn't ever seem to want to move out of his mom's house, and one is 18. And no, they're all taken. What do you mean a guy like you? What's wrong with you?
todreaminblue Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 I wanted to add this to my above post but oh well. Why do you think women like to talk about guys they are interested in to other guys? It just makes conversation awkward IMO. Cant speak for other women, but if i talking to another guy or let another guy know i am interested in someone else,its so they know I am not available that to me is less awkward than outright rejection.....deb
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