Sugarkane Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Seeing as people are so fickle and most don't appreciate anything. When so many people on here loved someone, yet treated like shyte as soon as they became the ex. When dumpers blame everything on the dumpee. Nothings their fault is it? When everybody cheats on everyone and blames the Person that was cheated on. Wash and repeat. When every gf/ bf feels like "the one" but they aren't. I often feel like what's The point?
bittermelon Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 I often feel the same way. I've seen relationships where the people were once so close and bam! one person decides that they don't want to be in it anymore. After years of being best friends, doing everything together, the person who wants to leave just picks up and goes like what they had in the past doesn't mean anything to them. I can't understand how someone can just walk away from a person that was supposed to mean so much to them at one point. And it's not like they are doing it because staying friends hurts too much... it's just that THEY DON'T CARE. And it can happen where one day they treat you with so much love and the next day they stop talking to you COLD TURKEY... FOREVER. I also wonder what is the point. It too seems meaningless to me. How can a person dedicate so much time to something and have it all disappear just like that? I like to believe that when this happens, there's a purpose for it and all part of life's plan. Like, there's something great waiting at the end of the tunnel. It's the only way to not feel hopeless about love. Otherwise, why bother? It scares me, because you put your whole heart into something and can't predict what will happen in the future.
Mr Scorpio Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 How can a person dedicate so much time to something and have it all disappear just like that? This happens everyday all over the world. Everything is transient. Would you let that stop you from persuing a career or making investments? From buying a house or planting a garden? All of those things can disappear just like that, and someday so will you. Why bother? To have experienced love, and the unique neurochemical state that accompanies it. To give yourself memories for your death-bed. To enjoy sharing your time with another.
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