heartbrken Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Where do i begin?? Currently Im living with my ex boyfriend we have a 8 year old girl who has severe autism. My ex sleeps down stairs in the living room and im up stairs in my bedroom. We split just before moving house in August last year after i kicked him out because he yelled at me 3 times for work reasons ( we work together ) then told everyone he was fed up of me being suspicious of him....I thought we would just get back together, but thats not the case, he is pretty cold to me, ignores me alot talks to me when it suits him, and i now believe he dosent love me at all, i also do everything around the house, cook, clean and run the business accounts. he does manual work within the company. Nearly 3 years ago i found sex texts from a woman on his phone, and i went ballistic, he said they were from an older woman who was really ill and she was playing out a fantasy, i let him off saying i never want to see her name again. About a year ago i had another check in his phone to see if she had really gone, and no shes still there and the text said 'you must need your eyes checking if you think im sexy, you must have lots of other girl friends' I honestly have never wept so many tears, i think he was trrying to make me crazy on purpose. Ok today after 7 months, i took another sneeky peek ( i know i shouldnt and hes my ex) but he was texting and smiling and i saw a glimpse when he turned around with his phone, so when he went to the bathroom, i looked and it was the same woman it read ' yeah im just getting comfy, had a long bath and rubbing lotion onto my body xxxxxx xxxxxxxxxx Please can someone tell me to get a million miles away from him asap, ive never hurt so much in my life
soccerrprp Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Okay, get a million miles away from him asap. He does not respect you and clearly is trying to sabotage, undermine the relationship.
Samilia Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Where do i begin?? Currently Im living with my ex boyfriend we have a 8 year old girl who has severe autism. My ex sleeps down stairs in the living room and im up stairs in my bedroom. We split just before moving house in August last year after i kicked him out because he yelled at me 3 times for work reasons ( we work together ) then told everyone he was fed up of me being suspicious of him....I thought we would just get back together, but thats not the case, he is pretty cold to me, ignores me alot talks to me when it suits him, and i now believe he dosent love me at all, i also do everything around the house, cook, clean and run the business accounts. he does manual work within the company. Nearly 3 years ago i found sex texts from a woman on his phone, and i went ballistic, he said they were from an older woman who was really ill and she was playing out a fantasy, i let him off saying i never want to see her name again. About a year ago i had another check in his phone to see if she had really gone, and no shes still there and the text said 'you must need your eyes checking if you think im sexy, you must have lots of other girl friends' I honestly have never wept so many tears, i think he was trrying to make me crazy on purpose. Ok today after 7 months, i took another sneeky peek ( i know i shouldnt and hes my ex) but he was texting and smiling and i saw a glimpse when he turned around with his phone, so when he went to the bathroom, i looked and it was the same woman it read ' yeah im just getting comfy, had a long bath and rubbing lotion onto my body xxxxxx xxxxxxxxxx Please can someone tell me to get a million miles away from him asap, ive never hurt so much in my life First if he cheated before, or was on his way to cheat, you have all the reasons to be suspicious. Second, get out of this situation, it's not healthy. I know autism is a terrible condition, taking care of a child with severe autism really is hard on the family. My ex sister in law's son has autism and I have to say she doesn't have it easy at all. By reading your post I'm guessing you want to mend things up with him, but it doesn't look promising. It looks like you're emotionally living in a toxic dumpster at the moment. I know that when you have a child with someone you don't just pack up your stuff and leave, however he hasn't stopped the behavior. I would personally consider leaving him and start fresh, meet someone new one day, create yourself a healthier lifestyle with your daughter. Why put yourself through more misery, don't you have it hard enough as it is?
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