dreamingoftigers Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Like I said, the porn is not hurting her. She doesn't know any better. There are plenty of guys who are attracted to her, good for them. She choose me, not them. If you truly believe that, you are as stupid as the rest of your posts make you sound. Honestly, it's not like she doesn't have an inkling of what's going on. That's probably why she's so upset. Her first boyfriend and the guy who took her virginity is not only not attracted to her, he humiliates her sexually and publically. I hope she doesn't tolerate this long. It's very unhealthy. 1
Author Kevn Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 Maybe that's because she's never been sexually fulfilled. I promise you, if this whole mess is for real, that even the most virginal woman will not be enjoying sex with a person who stares at a laptop the whole time and is only capable of "performing" in one position. She's faking it. We do more than one position. That one just feels the best and makes it easier to watch porn. We always finish in missionary because she likes it and it feels better for coming. So yes, I'm usually looking at her then.
Els Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Either way, she is happy. And plenty of people want a relationship to end before it ends. Try every single person who breaks up with someone else? I think it was fairly obvious that I meant the dumpee, as you were talking about your gf not wanting you to end it. Idiot. I see your social skills have improved by leaps and bounds since the incident. You don't have to stare at someone the entire time to have 'connection'. Actually, I think I concur with the others that you're really a troll of the highest degree. Anyone with a semi-functional brain would know that there's a huge range of options between 'staring at someone the entire time' and 'staring at your laptop the entire time'. Good luck with your imaginary girl. 1
Mme. Chaucer Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Anyway, from the sound of it she's seen the light. More power to her! OP, you should just confine yourself to the laptop and your trusty hand. Perfectly satisfactory for you, and nobody gets hurt. 4
mellow_yellow Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 What we are doing is normal to her, anything else would be weird. If a parent were to beat a child regularly, then that is normal to the child - it doesn't know any different. Does that make it ok to beat the child? If a parent feeds their child fizzy drinks, candy and fast food only, then that is also normal to the child - it doesn't know any different. Does than mean it's ok to give your child unhealthy food? Now, if the parent doesn't know any better either, then that's one thing. And very sad. BUT you *do* know better. And that means that you're deliberately short-changing her. Sad you can't see that. 1
Author Kevn Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 If you truly believe that, you are as stupid as the rest of your posts make you sound. Honestly, it's not like she doesn't have an inkling of what's going on. That's probably why she's so upset. Her first boyfriend and the guy who took her virginity is not only not attracted to her, he humiliates her sexually and publically. I hope she doesn't tolerate this long. It's very unhealthy. Or, her first boyfriend and the guy who took her virginity is extremely attracted to her personality, is always honest with her and [regardless of what you think] treats her amazing. Sure the sex isn't ideal. But that doesn't mean the rest of the relationship is ****. (Why would I lie? What the hell do I have to get out of that?)
Author Kevn Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 Anyway, from the sound of it she's seen the light. More power to her! OP, you should just confine yourself to the laptop and your trusty hand. Perfectly satisfactory for you, and nobody gets hurt. Nobody prefers a hand over a vagina (or penis). If a parent were to beat a child regularly, then that is normal to the child - it doesn't know any different. Does that make it ok to beat the child? If a parent feeds their child fizzy drinks, candy and fast food only, then that is also normal to the child - it doesn't know any different. Does than mean it's ok to give your child unhealthy food? Now, if the parent doesn't know any better either, then that's one thing. And very sad. BUT you *do* know better. And that means that you're deliberately short-changing her. Sad you can't see that. I am not physically hurting her. If I were beating her or telling her that you should eat crap all day, then yes, I'd be hurting her.
veggirl Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 if you all think he is trolling why do you keep responding? LS :love:
Els Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 if you all think he is trolling why do you keep responding? LS :love: You know that annoying scab on your arm that you know you shouldn't pick at, but it just keeps staring you in the face and you eventually pick at it? :laugh: 4
mellow_yellow Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 I am not physically hurting her. If I were beating her or telling her that you should eat crap all day, then yes, I'd be hurting her. Oh for the love of God! Of course I didn't mean that literally. I was talking about the principle of knowing better yourself, but using another person not knowing better to justify your own poor behaviour.
serial muse Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Either way, she is happy. Except she isn't anymore, which you said you find annoying. So now what? It sounds like what happened was, you burst her bubble, and she isn't able to deceive herself in the way she was before. That's the long and the short of it. So anticipate some changes ahead. 4
mellow_yellow Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 I'm curious once more: Since that outing in the bar, has she wanted to have sex with you? Or more accurately put: with your penis, since your mind is elsewhere during sex. 1
Author Kevn Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 Except she isn't anymore, which you said you find annoying. So now what? It sounds like what happened was, you burst her bubble, and she isn't able to deceive herself in the way she was before. That's the long and the short of it. So anticipate some changes ahead. Even so, she isn't going to leave me. She thinks that if she has sex with multiple people then she's a slut. I'm curious once more: Since that outing in the bar, has she wanted to have sex with you? Or more accurately put: with your penis, since your mind is elsewhere during sex. She's upset, of course not. We haven't hung out (my choice not hers), so it's not even an option.
mellow_yellow Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 She thinks that if she has sex with multiple people then she's a slut. I hope that it wasn't YOU who told her that? 1
mellow_yellow Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 She's upset, of course not. We haven't hung out (my choice not hers), so it's not even an option. And what do you think would happen if you chose to hang out with her again? You think she'd want to have sex with you?
Taramere Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 I'm 24 and I've been seeing a 22 year old for a few months. We were out with some friends and one fellow said a girl that walked in was a 10/10. His girlfriend asked him what she was, and he responded with a 10/10. Then this just kept going around the table. My girlfriend didn't ask me what I thought she was, but my friends girlfriend did. Without thinking I said "mm.. 6, maybe 5." When I looked over at her maybe 30 seconds later, she was on the verge of crying. She's not an ugly girl, she's just not my type physically per se. She looks innocent and beachy, if that makes sense. She got voted "cutest" in high school for the grade 12 year book. Other girls got "most beautiful" "prettiest", etc. I take it that "beachy" means she looks good in a bikini. That, and the fact that she was voted cutest girl in her class at high school, suggests that she's quite substantially above average. I should think she can do better than you. Hopefully she'll figure that out (or a more silver-tongued man than you will help her figure it out - particularly if you keep putting her down in public) sooner rather than later. 3
Author Kevn Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 I hope that it wasn't YOU who told her that? No, it wasn't. I don't think anyone ever did, it's just her opinion. And yes, she probably would want to have sex again. Probably when she gets over this.
serial muse Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Even so, she isn't going to leave me. She thinks that if she has sex with multiple people then she's a slut. She's upset, of course not. We haven't hung out (my choice not hers), so it's not even an option. You sound complacent; I wouldn't be if I were you.
Author Kevn Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 I take it that "beachy" means she looks good in a bikini. That, and the fact that she was voted cutest girl in her class at high school, suggests that she's quite substantially above average. I should think she can do better than you. Hopefully she'll figure that out (or a more silver-tongued man than you will help her figure it out - particularly if you keep putting her down in public) sooner rather than later. She does look good in a bikini, but that's not what I meant. I don't know how to explain it. Like this: http://web-images.chacha.com/hair-styles/what-are-some-easy-summer-hair-styles-7-wide.jpg She just looks like she belongs on a beach or in a surfing magazine or something. She doesn't want somebody else.
mellow_yellow Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 No, it wasn't. I don't think anyone ever did, it's just her opinion. And yes, she probably would want to have sex again. Probably when she gets over this. I hope for her sake she doesn't. And finds a man who will find her attractive AND like her non-physical attributes. Don't underestimate her. She's a medical student, and while she may be a little inexperienced in love matters she is not stupid. I hope she has a good long think. ETA: what's your usual type then? You posted a pic to illustrate what your gf looks like...and I find that picture very pretty. So now I wonder what the women look like that you normally go for. 2
Taramere Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 She does look good in a bikini, but that's not what I meant. I don't know how to explain it. Like this: http://web-images.chacha.com/hair-styles/what-are-some-easy-summer-hair-styles-7-wide.jpg She just looks like she belongs on a beach or in a surfing magazine or something. Slightly hippyish then. She doesn't want somebody else. It's amazing how rapidly a girl or a woman can change her mind about who she wants, and how much she's prepared to tolerate from him, when a better man comes along. I'm sure her next boyfriend will be very grateful to you for being such an effective wingman. 3
yessy21 Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 I hope for her sake she doesn't. And finds a man who will find her attractive AND like her non-physical attributes. Don't underestimate her. She's a medical student, and while she may be a little inexperienced in love matters she is not stupid. I hope she has a good long think. ETA: what's your usual type then? You posted a pic to illustrate what your gf looks like...and I find that picture very pretty. So now I wonder what the women look like that you normally go for. Im equally curious. Im also curious as to what the OP looks like. Because that surfer chick is More than cute
Author Kevn Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 I hope for her sake she doesn't. And finds a man who will find her attractive AND like her non-physical attributes. Don't underestimate her. She's a medical student, and while she may be a little inexperienced in love matters she is not stupid. I hope she has a good long think. ETA: what's your usual type then? You posted a pic to illustrate what your gf looks like...and I find that picture very pretty. So now I wonder what the women look like that you normally go for. She most likely will get over it, she's never stayed mad at me before. What do I normally go for? The complete opposite of her. Dark hair, dark eyes, sharper features, thinner, more sex appeal, tanner, smaller boobs (more of a b guy), darker eyebrows, better makeup.
Els Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 ...Now I'm REALLY going with troll. I have a niggly feeling that this thread was made to taunt all the guys who can't get dates with remotely attractive girls and would kill to be able to sleep with his gf.
Taramere Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Im equally curious. Im also curious as to what the OP looks like. Because that surfer chick is More than cute I think he was probably talking about the clothing style and hair more than the actual face. If she does have a face like that, then I should have thought the rest of the people at that table would have laughed his "five or six out of ten" comment out of the room, because it would have been so patently ridiculous.
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